Honestly, I wouldn't suggest the SAT for a sophomore. They typically haven't seen all the math that's on it. There's plenty of time to take it later-- most kids take it in spring (usually May) of Junior year and then again around Halloween of Senior year.
I'll back you up on this one. Students shouldn't take the SAT 'til they've finished Algebra 2. Why give them a test on math they haven't had yet? Why pay $47 to be disappointed?
Same thing as the above, I think. It's just a difference in philosophy and whatever works but from my pov, you'd better work and work hard on grades and testing and etc., to get into the best schools possible, to have the widest and best options possible. It's not all about Harvard or anything - the best school for some kid can be anything, but you have to work hard for that too. I mean... why aim low? Why not strive for the best you can personally do and have every option open? Maybe a kid figures they'll go to the local mediocre school because they think they couldn't get into a top tier, but with work and work on apps and etc., they could - doesn't mean they have to go but they might be more interested than they'd have thought if they actually had the opportunity.
I see your point: Kids who are encouraged to work harder will achieve more.
However, you can reach a point of diminishing returns on that concept. If you push-push-push-push the child, you may be able to -- for lack of a better word -- "artificially raise" the grades to the point that the child really couldn't have done them on her own. For example, if your child is "naturally" able to make a 1800 on the SAT, but you send her to a bunch of classes, have her take it multiple times, and do everything you can possibly do to eek out every single point she can possibly earn . . . she might manage an 2000. But she can't keep up that level of work in college; on her own, without tutors and extra help, she's a 1800-kid. If she goes to a 2000-SAT type college, she may find herself unable to keep up, unable to "run full-out" for four years straight. I don't think this happens all that often, but it does happen.
I'm thinking of a friend of my brother's. His mother pushed him so hard in high school. Every day he was required to come straight home and do his homework in her presence. She checked it, corrected it, proofed every essay, read his novels along with him so they could discuss them. He was #1 or #2 in their graduating class. Got a full-ride scholarship to a competative university. I forget whether he lasted one semester or two semesters. In fact, my high school boyfriend was like that too -- though to a lesser extent. His parents pushed him hard in high school, and he earned a full-ride ROTC . . . but he couldn't earn the grades in college to keep it.
You absolutely should
encourage your child, but I fear you're treading dangerously close to the "too much" side.
The thing I noticed was that GPAs didn't have to be that high- 3.5. More emphasis was placed on test scores.
Maybe that's different in different areas, but I'm hearing quite a bit about colleges focusing LESS on the big tests and more on GPA. Don't take that to an extreme: I'm not saying that the tests don't matter -- just that they're a part of the picture, not the star item.
I don't want her to start out under a huge mound of debt because so much of scholarships might ride on a test score and she just did okay. That's the part I can't get her to understand. I'm willing to help but not take on the entire load of debt and I've been reading where some people's children aren't being approved for the loans they need. I'd hate for her to complete 2-3 years of college and not be able to finish because she can't get a loan. Why not put in the time and effort now to do her absolute best on the SAT/ACT, hopefully getting scholarship money, so she doesn't spend the next 10 years paying back loans? It's all about the long-term big picture and she just can't see that far into the future, although I don't think most kids can.
I started talking to my oldest about college costs, debt, etc. when she was a freshman. She didn't really start to "get it" 'til she was a junior and we started to visit colleges -- specifically, we started talking to her about exactly what we could afford/what we couldn't afford. At that point she could SEE what the money was purchasing, and at the same time she started to realize that lots -- even most -- of her very smart friends
weren't getting big-time scholarships. I don't regret starting to talk to her about these things as a freshman; it prepared her. But I also don't think she was really ready to grasp the concepts 'til she was a junior.
On the positive side, she had a FAST learning curve and became very interested in her junior year. I don't think you're in trouble.
My DS is only in the 7th, but is a voracious reader! He can generally figure out most vocab words from the sentence, but I've noticed that now that he has his Nook, he simply taps on the word in question and gets the definition...something like that might just be handy for her in general to increase her vocab. It's a lot easier than stopping reading, looking the word up in the dictionary or asking me...so he just does it as habit now.
When I got my Kindle, I didn't think I'd use that feature -- ever. WRONG. I find myself using it constantly, and it's honed my use of words (and I'm an English teacher). When I read a paper-book these days, I sometimes find myself moving my thumb towards the non-existant vocab key! I think this is a great way to help kids improve their vocabulary.
She really doesn't have any outside interests, hobbies, sports she plays, etc. so she'll be short on that in her apps and she also doesn't have a job. I'd really prefer she spend her time working on good grades, not working for a living.
This is a red flag. The no-job in high school thing is not a big deal, but having no real life outside of her education is not really healthy. Also, it'll kill her with scholarships. Scholarships are tougher than every these days, and they go to kids who have good grades AND are well-rounded.
How about a summer volunteering gig? The library and the hospital often take summer teen volunteers, and those things could possibly spur a career interest as well. Or a summer camp job. And encourage her towards some clubs or group activities next school year too.
I completely disagree with everyone saying to back off! I received my scholarship which paid for all 4 years at a private school because I had my application, SAT scores and all, turned in by the end of junior year. My parents pushed me, and I hated it at the time, but now I'm 23 with little debt and a well-paying job that I love.
Cool story, but having taught school for 20 years, I know LOTS of stories -- some good, some bad. For every positive story like yours, I know a dozen negative stories with a variety of themes: Burn out or rebellion, flunking out, switching schools because it was mom and dad's choice rather than the student's real desire.
It's nice that being pushed hard helped you, but yours is not a typical story. I maintain that encouragement is good; pushing is bad.
Of course I'm expecting she'll take the test once or twice in Junior year and, if necessary, again in Senior year.
Four times total? Most students -- even our top, most competative students -- take it twice.