I know you can't see the logic, but I can. That someone off the list is a father, mother, sister, brother, grandma, and or grandpa. The list exists as is because transplant teams have determined it is the best for EVERYONE. This junction has played on the heartstrings of people. These same parents could have also been lobbying while the child was waiting, but they did not. (this is from the information I have and if I am wrong I accept all the criticism I receive).
My father went through almost 1000 pages of paperwork to get on the transplant list. Getting an organ is not as simple as being on the top of the list. This judge has opened up the system to many lawsuits that will now take the program back many years. I FEEL FOR THE YOUNG GIRL. I really do. But this was not the way to do it.
I said in a post prior that this would cause some to question their organ donation. It is trying to put through a change to save one life even if the goal was to bring awareness. It was the wrong time to do it.
1,000 pages of paperwork to figure out which organ may or may not be a match. I can not stress enough how bad this is for the transplant program.
Many will disagree with me and that is just the way it is. But even I after my father received a donation will have to re-evaluate the system. If they are going to make exception it is not the program I believe in. I will not be able to support it either. But I am not going to make a hasty decision.
As I stated before I do believe this was a decision based on the fact that at this time nothing will change. Her odds really are not that much more than before. I said before the doctors and transplant team may now re-evaluate the program and the process for pre-teens. It also may stay the same.
It is suppose to be a program for the masses, not the person who gets the most media attention, the best insurance, the most money. Once this happens and if it happens it will not be something I can be a part of. I will have to figure out how to re-write my will and medical paperwork so that my organs will revert back to the system that saved my father. No one person is better/sicker than the other to put them on a list they did not originally belong on.
Flame away. I walked in shoes that went down this road. I have a clear conscience re: my decision. It is a personal choice and to be very honest a tough one.
I will again keep all the my thoughts and prayers with this family and the family that has been removed because of this decision.