Good gravy people.
She's traveling and these are indeed restless times. A little forethought is nothing to be getting so snippy about! She's not saying anything that could be at ALL construed as racist, yet all the bashing/make big fun of her question is, well, a little over the top, isn't it?
When my son got married last year we made sure he had contact info for my friend who lives semi-close to where his honeymoon was in the event of any events. We even, gasp, spoke to the friends and had a contingency plan in case anything happened.
Once all bases were covered, everyone could relax and all had a good time. Maybe because I'm from NE, but we always like to have a plan, cause ya never know.