Just finished reading this post from #1.
All I can think is that when something really bad happens it can bring up the best in people. The reactions of Dani and Stacy and Tom and others here really show the good in humanity and shows their real character.
I am especially impressed with Dani's reaction with the whole situation in that while "venting" about all the frustrations she has gone through, she has always tried to give the rentee some benefit of the doubt by hoping that the she will ultimately overcome whatever is hampering her and make good on her promises.
Dani's attitude about the whole matter is refreshing. It has never been about "bashing" anyone but always about warning others to be more careful and hoping that someone can be a better person than others think they will be.
Here's hoping that things get resolved to everyone's satisfaction. That that the lesson learned from this whole fiasco is that we all need to be aware of our personal responsibility in any rental transaction, to proceed with caution, and that while there are people out there who may be very inconsiderate, there are MANY caring ones out there also.
I totally agree with a previous poster that said she would pray for the rentee also - that her financial and other situations will improve so that she could fulfill her obligations to both Dani and Stacy.
OT - It reminded in of a situation with my Mom and a tenant she had from H*LL. The tenant was an older lady who stayed home all day and liked nothing better than to call us 3 to 6 times EACH and EVERY day to complain about this and that. We had to take each call because otherwise she would call the dept. of housing to file a formal complaint with the city which would result in inspections and if nothing else paperwork and additional headaches. She was a real pain.
I would see my Mom disappear into a room for a long while whenever it got too much for her. I thought she was taking a nap or something 'cause she had headache. I took a peek in the room one time and found her on her knees praying! I asked her later what she was praying for. I never would have imagined her response. She told me that she would pray for this problem tenant each and every day that something wonderful happens to her, that she would become so happy that she wouldn't be so miserable and try to take it out on us, and that she would win the lottery that she could finally move to a luxury building on Fifth Ave so that everything would to her satisfaction!!!
A few months later we get a call from the tenant telling her that a close friend of hers had died and left her a sizable inheritance so she was buying a condo in upstate NY and would be moving out. I couldn't stop looking at my Mom with awe. The tenant knew that we would be happy to hear she was moving. My Mom was so overjoyed at the news that she took the tenant out to a really nice dinner celebration.
While she lived here, our relationship with her was very rocky - she could get extremely verbally abusive - but after she moved our relationship with her was very reconcilatory. For many years afterwards, we would get Christmas cards every year from this tenant.
Again I hope things work out for everyone, even the pp.