Running From Time (comments/advice appreciated!)

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Hi! My name is Megan, I'm 22, and I live in Arizona. I'm very excited to find journals on this board, because I was looking for a place to write an ongoing fitness/diet journal where I could get advice and encouragement from others. My mother is actually a frequent poster on the community board, but I didn't really get into it. It led me here, though, so that I'm happy about.

I've been posting lots of stuff on 43things.com. If you don't know what that is, it's a website where you can make a list of the goals you want to accomplish, and you can view other people's goals and cheer and comment one another. I have entry after entry under my "lose weight" goal, but there aren't a lot of people there who read and comment on my ramblings. I'm hoping here will be different.

So here is a little bit about me: I grew up in Maine, went to college in New Hampshire to study musical theatre and theatre education, and then moved out to Arizona where my husband is from. I graduated college in 2005 and got married that October. I spent the next school year earning my teaching certificate. My husband graduated that same year with his bachelors and teaching certificate (he is older than me, but went on a two year mission for our church). He got offered a job to teach music at his old high school in a town about an hour away from Tucson, so we decided to move there and take that job. That meant that none of the jobs open for me would be within commuting distance, so I have not been teaching this year. I'm not upset about that, because while it would be a great job for me, why work if I don't have to? However, I am working right now. My car had to have lots of work done on it this year, so I'm working to help get us out of debt. I currently work at an insurance office three days a week and at Curves twice a week.

Now for my weight/fitness/diet history... I graduated from high school weighing about 115, and then from college at about 140. During college I had a dancing job in the summers, so I would usually finish the school year around 140-145, and then finish the summer around 130. The lightest I've been post-high school was when I reached 128 the fall of 2003. When I got married I weighed about 135 and stayed there until we took a vacation to Maine for about a month last summer (2006). When I got home I was about 144; this was last July. Since then I've been trying to lose it, but I've only gotten down to 140. For the past few weeks I've been trying to get to 139, but I've plateaued a bit! I would like to shoot for a range of 125-130, so I have 10-15 pounds to lose. Not very much, but it's still not easy! For my height of 5'1'', the heaviest weight that is still considered normal is 132.
As for fitness, I did some cheerleading and gymnastics in high school, and some dance in college, but I've never been involved with any intense cardio sports. When I did gymnastics I had killer arm muscles, though! I've taken up running this year, and I can run 5k in about 37.5 minutes (nothing to brag about!), and I'd like to run a 5k race sometime.

So overall, I'd just like to lose 10-15 pounds, and I've already done a good job of making daily changes. I've kept a food journal for a few months now, which I keep up to date, along with writing down what I do for exercise. Now that I work at Curves, I do the Curves workout twice a week, plus I do some of my own strength training at home, and for cardio I mostly just run 2-3 times a week, but sometimes I will do a workout video. I have Windsor Pilates, which I like, along with some other ones. I grew up on junk food and eating out, so I have BAD eating habits that I'm trying to break. I've done a decent job of adding in fruits and vegetables and water, and reducing my soda and junk intake. So I guess I'm doing a decent job, though I still eat out fairly often, which sets me back a bit.

So on here I will be posting information about my weigh-ins (which I do everyday), what I'm eating, what I'm doing for exercise, and probably lots of ramblings about my everyday life.

There is one major thing I would love to get advice about right now- what I've been struggling with recently, and I'd love to hear from women who may have dealt with the same thing. My husband and I are definitely wanting to start our family this year, and we're thinking about starting to try to get pregnant sometime in the next 1-3 months. I'm very excited about having children, but I'm feeling major pressure to do things now that I may not be able to do later. One of those things is to lose weight. I know that any weight I lose before getting pregnant will be good for me, but that it will be depressing to lose it and then just gain it right back once I get pregnant. I know that I can work to lose the pregnancy weight after having a baby, but I feel like it will be so much harder, and I don't have great willpower. The other thing is that I love to dance, and I want to get better. I will never be a professional dancer, but that is also not my goal. I just want to be better, so I'm afraid the time I have now is my only opportunity to work on that before I get pregnant and my body changes for good. Basically I have two goals: to raise a family, and to continue in the performing world (even just on a casual/local basis). I also direct and produce shows, but I want to perform too. In order to be my best, I'd have to throw myself into the work full time, and that would compromise my other goal, so I'm looking for a happy medium. I'd love to hear from women who have been in my situation and how you dealt with balancing your activities and your children, as well as your weight!

To summarize, for anyone who just skipped to the end of this lengthy post: want to lose 10-15 pounds to get to 125-130, currently plateauing at 140, wanting to get pregnant but not to compromise getting into shape or being involved with the activities I love (theatre/dance), would love advice from anyone on anything!

Thanks for reading this, and good luck to everyone else on your goals!
 
Well, I was hoping to hear from some people, but nothing yet. Oh well, maybe soon. I'm planning on reading other people's journals, so maybe if I leave comments then I will receive some too!

Well, today I am in the office, and there is next to nothing to do. Literally, if I were the boss, I'd get rid of me. :rotfl: There are 2-3 people in the office each day, and there really only needs to be 1. It's hard to continue my plan on these days, because I hardly see the sunlight. I leave my house at 6, go to rehearsal, then come here, and get home around 6. But I did dance this morning, and so far I've just had a cereal bar and water. I'm planning on Subway for lunch and walking around the mall. There is no microwave here, so I can't bring lean cuisines or anything like that, which is too bad.

This morning I weighed in at 140.8, which was a little disappointing to me. I did a great job yesterday and only saw a .2 difference. I was kind of hoping for today to be my 139 day, since I ran/walked 3 miles and did the workout at Curves. Maybe tomorrow, if I do really well today, but I don't think I'll be exercising. It's Friday and I don't have to get up early tomorrow, so I'll probably just be relaxing tonight. Plus, tomorrow is my husband's birthday, so we'll probably be going out to eat.

I also plan on measuring myself, so I'm going to post my measurements, but I'll have to wait until I'm at Curves, because I don't remember them. Inches off would be great! Most of my weight is in my stomach area.

Well anyway, I would love to hear from you, if you have a comment for me. Thanks a lot!!
 
Hi and welcome. I did read your lengthy post;) and think you have very reasonable goals. Yes you body does change after being pregnant, but many people go right back to their body shapes, with the hips being a little larger obviously, after delivery.

I don't post that often, but if you post in others journals I think others will post in yours. Good luck and have a good week.
 

Welcome to WISH!!! I live in Mesa, AZ, we are practically neighbors! :thumbsup2

I have had 2 kids (DS10 and DD7) and pregnancy does change your body, but it's not the end of the world! After DD10 was born I was back to pre-pregnancy weight after 4 months, and that was without doing any dieting or exercising. It took a little longer after DD7, but it is possible to get back into tip-top shape after babies.

I don't have any personal experience with dance, but I will tell you about my DD's dance teacher. She has had 3, yes 3 babies (no twins) since DD started dance 3 years ago. She kept dancing (ballet, jazz, no tap) throughout the pregnancies and she was always slimmed back down before she got pregnant again. So I think as long as you get your Dr's blessing you should be fine to continue doing what you love, both during and after pregnancy.

It is very encouraging to read others journals. There are lots of good ideas, plenty of motivation. And once you get to "know" more people, you will get lots of posts in your journal. :)
 
Thank you both for your comments! I'm glad to hear that slimming down after pregnancy is possible!

So today at lunch I didn't do so well. I was planning on a Subway sandwich, but I let myself get so hungry by not having much breakfast, that I was craving something else. I almost got Subway, but the line was long and I caved and went to Burger King... I'm not too disappointed, though, because if I have a low calorie dinner, I should still be on track for my calories today.

I was thinking about how I'm plateauing right now, and I think maybe to change it up, I should try interval training. Instead of running at my normal (very slow) pace, I think I'll trade off walking and sprinting. Maybe that will get me past.

I was also thinking of maybe not weighing myself for a little while. Not seeing 139 day after day is getting me down and causing me to want to give up. Before this summer I wasn't dieting or really exercising, but I weighed 136, just naturally. Not sure why I can't get there now, but maybe if I just rely on my knowledge of eating right and exercising for awhile without weighing, then maybe I will be more committed because I'll be less depressed. We'll see.

I also really want to join the gym that is opening near my house. They aren't going to be opening for a few weeks, but I'm hoping that it might work out for me to get a job there. I plan on keeping my office job just for another few months, and if I could get a job at the gym for a few shifts a week to have a free membership, that might be worth it. It would certainly be helpful to my exercise plan to work at Curves and a gym... We'll just have to see!
 
Hi, it sounds like you have great goals! Don't worry to much about gaining and then losing pregnancy weight. If you stay in shape during your pregnancy, and gain a reasonable amount of weight, you will be amazed at how quickly it comes off and as far as body shape goes, my cousin recently had #2 in less then 2 yrs, she was rail thin, with no curves, well, she now has a 2 yr old and a 6 month old, she weighs about 3 lbs more then she did before #1, and she loves her new body, she actually has a shape!

I also understand about weighing every day. It can be really depressing. My DH actually hid the scale from me, becuase I would weigh several times everyday and I would have a bad day everytime the blasted scale gave me a bad number! I try not to weigh more then once a week now. Often enough to make sure I am staying on track, but not so much that I get addicted!

As for your plateau, when I hit one, my trainer had me take 3 days of eating lots of calories, like 2500-3000, when normal was around 1600, and then drop it back to the regular 1600, that broke me right out of the plateau! Now, my situation is a bit different from yours, I need to lose about 60 more lbs, but I would think the theory behind it would be the same, eating lots of calories for a few days jump starts your metabolism, and helps you get thru the plateau. You also want to make sure you are eating the right number of calories for your weight, your weight loss goals, and the amount you exercise. You can stop losing weight if you are eating to few calories, just as easily as if you eat to many. :eek:

Good Luck!
Nicole
 
Hi Nicole,
Thanks, your comments were very helpful! I'll try your idea...any excuse to eat more! hehe Actually, tomorrow is my husband's birthday, so we're going out to eat, so maybe I'll try to eat a bit more for a couple of days and then go back down and see if it works! I'll put the scale away for a little bit, too!
 
Welcome to WISH! :cheer2: :cheer2:

It sounds to me like you have some very reasonable goals. I wanted to say that your idea of doing some interval training is FANTASTIC! I used to only walk or only run, and when I mixed them together, the weight really started to come off. Best wishes! I used to weigh myself daily, but I was starting to go crazy, so I only check every few days now. It seems to work better for me psychologically. Maybe it would for you too.

I haven't had children myself, so I can't comment on how easy it is to lose weight after pregnancy. However, I am in a similar situation. Dh and I are thinking of starting a family this year too (if I can wrap my brain around the whole motherhood thing!) and I worry about the weightgain too. I just lost over 60lbs and worry about pregnancy. I've really enjoyed reading about peoples' own experiences. Whatever decision you make will be the right one (ie. dancing, pregnancy). You're asking questions which means you want to make an educated decision.

Best wishes and I hope you enjoy WISH! :goodvibes
 
It helps to have a plan when you eat out. Do you know where you are going? If it is a chain restaurant, you can usually look up the menu (and sometimes nutritional info) before you you go. Pick the healthiest choice and when you get there, just order it, don't even look at the menu!

Have a great time celebrating with DH and let us know how it goes!

Amy
 
So yesterday I let myself eat a little more than usual. I have been eating about 1500 calories a day, and my body has gotten used to that, so eating more than usual for me was still probably under 2000 calories. That being said, I weighed myself this morning (I know, I said I wouldn't!) and I weighed less than I have in six months! The lowest I've seen recently was 140.4, and this morning it was 140.2, but that's not all. About an hour later I was getting dressed, and, since I hadn't eaten anything yet, I thought I'd weigh myself again, just to see. It said 140.0!!!! One more tenth of a pound and I'm at 139! Granted, 139.9, but still! I'm dying to be out of the 140s!

So I wasn't planning on keeping too tight a rein on my eating today, since I thought Nicole's idea was worth trying, but after that weigh-in, I didn't want to mess up. Still, I didn't deprive myself. My husband chose a BBQ place for lunch, which was good because it wasn't a place that had lots of food that I like. I got a smoked turkey sandwich with cheese and ate half of it, taking off most of the meat (there was like an entire turkey in there!). I had a baked potato with sour cream, a few of his french fries, and one coke. I definitely ate a lot less than I would have if he had picked one of my favorite restaurants, so that was good. Plus it filled me up, and now it's almost dinner time and I've had no snacks! So now I have about two hours of free time, so I definitely want to exercise, to see if I can get down to 139 tomorrow. I'm debating whether or not I want to go out running for some interval training, or if I just want to do something at home here. I'm a pretty mean tap dancer, so I might dance in my kitchen for awhile. Tap burns a lot of calories and is great cardio! I also have a dance to choreograph for the show I'm in, so I'll probably spend a bit of time on that- it actually won't take very long and it's not much exercise. Maybe I'll do a combination of all three!

By the way, Amy, great comment about planning ahead when eating out! I bought the calorie king book that has most of the caloric values for lots of restaurants, and I use it a lot! It's so eye opening to look and see that one burger at Chilis equals my calorie count for the DAY! I also started ordering a water to start with when I eat out, telling myself that if I need a coke after, then I can get it, and I usually end up only drinking the water!

Well, that's all from me for today. I will update tomorrow, hopefully with good news! On Monday I'm back at work, probably with little to do, so I'll read journals then!
 
Hi, Megan! :welcome: to WISH! Thanks for stopping by my journal!

I think that you have good goals and I definitely understand where you are coming from on the pregnancy fears. I am 28 and we have been putting off pregnancy for several years for various reasons. I am excited now, but scared too. I worry about gaining extra weight and not having enough energy to keep up with my kids. I also worry about not having a healthy lifestyle to pass on to my children. That said.. I think it is most important to focus on eating healthy and staying active before, during, and after pregnancy. I am not a doctor, nor have I consulted one, but I think as long as your body is used to you dancing and it is something that you normally do, then you should be able to continue into your pregnancy. I think that if you had never or rarely danced, then taking up an intense dance routine midway through the pregnancy would be bad, but doing what you already do should be fine. That is one reason I am trying to incorporate more exercise into my routine now.

I also hope that if we can learn to eat more sensible and healthy foods before we are pregnant and just continue eating healthy during, then we won't gain unreasonable amounts of weight. :wizard: Let's hope!

Also, and this is a good question for those of you who have had kids, I have heard that if you breastfeed, then you loose the pregnancy weight a lot quicker! I know that a lot of moms choose not to these days, but it is something that I am going to at least try to do.

I say PUT THAT SCALE AWAY!!! You're gonna drive yourself MAD weighing everyday. Try to set one day a week to weigh in and don't look if it is not that day. I bet you will be less stressed, less depressed, and the weight will come off quicker!

Good Luck! See ya soon!
 
Hi Megan-
Welcome to journals and thanks for stopping by my journal. Im 22 and have a similar goal in losing 10-15 pounds! You seem to be doing great and youll be in the 130s in no time! I would say to pick one day a week and weigh only on that day--you are going to drive yourself crazy weighing at least once a day!
Keep it up, good luck!
 
I agree with the others, only weigh yourself once a week. I used to be really bad about weighing myself several times a day. I still weigh myself daily, but only count my "official" weight on Friday mornings. Your weight can vary 2-3lbs over the course of the day. Try giving the scale a break for a few days, or if that is too hard, just weigh yourself once a day, then once every other day or something like that. Just don't get frustrated by weighing yourself every couple hours! Another thing is to take meaurements and use that to gauge your progress instead of what the scale says. You can gain muscle, therefore gain weight, but lose inches.
 
Well, I haven't been able to tear myself away from my scale just yet, but I will eventually. This morning I was 140.0, so I really hope I get 139 tomorrow! After that, I will only weigh once every few days. The weight is definitely coming off, just slowly. I realized the other day that my body is used to eating fewer calories, which is a good thing on one hand, because it means that less fills me up, but it also means it might be harder to lose weight eating the same amount of calories, so I think I may start trying a cheat day every week where I eat 2000-2500 calories, rather than my usual 1500ish count. Yesterday I ate very little because I wasn't all that hungry. Today I'm just going to try not to overeat, plus I danced this morning, and I will probably walk at lunch, and then I may take a gymnastics class tonight. I've been counting calories for months now, but I think I'm going to put that on hold for a few days. It's just a regular week, with nothing to celebrate and nowhere to go, so we'll see what happens.
 
I took my measurements this morning, and they are not bad! I took them a few months ago, and I've definitely lost 4-5 inches overall.

As of 1/9/07:
upper arm- 12
bicep- 11.5 (this went up, not sure if that's good or bad!)
bust- 38
waist- 30.5
abdomen- 35
hips- 38
thigh- 22.5
calf- 14

Now that I have those down, I can keep track of what I lose. I have definitely noticed recently that my stomach (which is my trouble spot) has gotten a little flatter. Not only that, but my stomach and my abdomen seem pretty streamlined (i.e.- I don't have rolls). That makes me very happy. You can see above that there is actually a 4.5 inch difference, but that's natural, and it's not that noticeable. I'm very happy for that, because it seems like my ab workout and my limit of soda intake is working.

This morning I weighed 140.0, then worked out for about an hour, and still weighed 140.0! I'm hoping tomorrow is the day for the 130s. It occurred to me that my scale doesn't do every .1, but rather every .2, so to hit the 130s, I'll actually have to get down to 139.8. I think I'm very close.

This is the workout I did this morning- I started with two minutes of jumping jacks and did 30 seconds of cardio between each set of exercises. I did 25 push ups, 25 dips, 25 back lifts, 2 back walk overs, 50 calf dips, 25 shoulder lifts, 32 glute kicks, and 100 crunches, then I repeated the whole circuit. Oh and yes, I am most definitely making up the names to most of those exercises, so let me know if you'd like clarification.

Here is a workout I found on fitnessmagazine.com that sounds good. It claims to burn 130 calories in 12 minutes:

The Workout
Minute 0:00-1:00 Warm up with jumping jacks.

1:00-2:00 Quick feet push-ups: Run in place as fast as you can for 5 seconds, then drop to the floor and complete one full push-up; repeat.

2:00-4:00 Cardio drill: jump rope.

4:00-5:00 Skater lunge: Standing with feet hip-width apart, bend right knee 90 degrees and place it behind left foot. Return to start and repeat with opposite leg.

5:00-6:00 Reverse crunch: Lie on back with knees bent, feet lifted and arms at sides. Using your abs, lift your hips off floor; lower and repeat.

6:00-8:00 Repeat cardio drill.

8:00-9:00 Mountain climber: Get into a full push-up position and bring one knee toward chest. Switch feet back and forth as quickly as you can, keeping palms on floor.

9:00-10:00 Squat jump: Stand with feet shoulder-width apart, arms at sides. Squat down, then jump up explosively. Land softly into squat position; repeat.

10:00-12:00 Repeat cardio drill.

I'm not sure exactly how to do the skater lunges, but I'm sure I could substitute something else.

I'm also planning on doing some interval training today, later this afternoon before heading to Curves for my shift. Here is my plan:

2 minutes walking warmup

6 sets of 1 minute of walking and 30 seconds of sprinting

6 sets of 45 seconds of walking and 45 seconds of sprinting

6 sets of 30 seconds of walking and 1 minute of sprinting

1 minute walking cool down

My only worry is when to turn around... With the changes in walking time and sprinting time, I should cover more distance on the second half, unless the extra minute at the beginning makes up for it. I'll just have to experiment and see when to turn around so that I don't get back home too early or too late (wouldn't want any EXTRA walking time!!!) lol

I was pretty disappointed this morning because I was supposed to have an extra rehearsal but I didn't go, because my cat was supposed to have a vet appointment. When I first went in to make the appointment, we set up two different ones, and he was supposed to be neutered today, but I called to make sure, because the paper from the last appointment said his next appointment was on 9/27/06, which was obviously wrong. Anyway, it turns out that they never made that appointment, so now it won't be until February. So not that bad except that I could have gone to my rehearsal, and I really wish I could have gone this morning. I'm in the middle of teaching a dance, and we're finishing up learning two other dances. I just hope I didn't miss too much.

So I decided against taking any dance classes or gymnastics classes. I was going to, and I still want to, but I decided against it for two reasons. Well, plus an extra reason for the dance class. First of all, we're trying hard to get out of debt, and my husband is reluctant to try to get pregnant while we still owe money, in case something happens. I know he's right, but I still want to start trying soon! The money we owe is to his mother (because she helped us pay off our credit card and now we're paying her without interest), and she's really sweet, and we know that she's not keeping track of how much we've given her, and she probably wouldn't even care if we did pay her back (though we are!). Anyway, my point of view is that, if I get pregnant now, we aren't going to have a baby for another 9 months! We'll definitely be out of debt by then. Anyway, I think we'll start trying in a few months, as long as we're doing well with our money, and I've decided to save the money I would have spent on those classes. I also realized that pregnancy is not going to ruin my body for life! As long as I stick with my diet and exercise plan, there's no reason why I can't have a slammin body after having a baby! :) So I'm putting off the classes for now with the idea that maybe someday in the next few years I'll take them. So the money is the one reason, and the other reason is that since I'm working every day now plus rehearsals plus trying to fit in exercise, I don't have much energy for a lot of extra activities. I think I'll wait until we have more money, and I have more time. It might be the perfect thing to do when I have small children, because then I can get out of the house for an hour or two each week, in the evenings when my husband can watch the kids. My other reason for the dance class is that the one I wanted to take was on Saturday, and I really would like to keep my Saturdays open and not have something I have to do each week.

So those are the decisions I've made for now. I don't like my job, but I just need to get through it and make the money so that I can stop doing it! I really wish there was something available that actually had something to do with my degree, because I could have a job that I love. It's not like I'm unqualified, there just aren't a lot of openings. There was a perfect job opening at our nearby equity theatre, for an education manager, and I applied, but they decided not to hire someone until spring. At that point I'll probably not be looking for a job, and they probably won't be looking for someone who might quit in a few months to have a baby! Anyway, bottom line is that I'm not doing a lot of things that I love right now, but it's important to do what I have to do to get us out of debt and into parenthoodland! My husband makes most of our money, but he's on salary and doesn't have a chance at making more money each week. We just have to make the best of it for now, enjoy the luxuries that we do have (our house is FREE!), and look forward to getting out of debt and having babies! "Kelly and I agreed that we'd just have fun. But I'm quickly learning that Kelly's idea of having fun is getting married and having babies...immediately...with me." Anybody watch The Office?

Okay, I'm ending this long entry that was supposed to be short....NOW!
 
Sounds like you've got a good plan in place! And yes, you can have a great bod after having a baby. Lots of women do!

Even if you don't bust the 140 barrier tomorrow, it will happen. And if your measurements get better, you will know for sure you are gaining muscle and losing fat. As long as you continue to see progress, you are succeeding! :goodvibes
 
It sounds like you are doing great! Don't let the scale get you down, the most important thing is how you look and feel! Hang in there, you will reach your goal!
 
Still not 139... So sad. But I'm not going to worry about it just yet. Today I'm actually going to eat a lot! I haven't been keeping track of calories for the past few days, but I know I didn't overeat. I want to jumpstart my metabolism, since it seems like my body is used to about 1500 calories a day now, so I'm going to have at least one day of eating a lot and then I'll see what happens when I go back to 1500. Maybe I should do two days, but I get worried about that. I'm really pushing to get down to 125, but for now I'm going to focus on getting to 132, because at that weight, with my height, I will no longer be overweight. I know it's good that I've been making changes small enough to maintain for a long time, but I'm thinking that I need to work on this hardcore for a little while. I know that a lot of people diet and exercise and lose weight fast and then just put it back on when they stop dieting, but what I'd like to do is go hardcore until I'm at my goal, and then go back to what I'm doing right now. I really think that I could maintain my weight once I get there.
My friend told me that she's interested in losing too, so we're going to work on this together. This is great because she is the friend who I usually go out to eat with, so for lunch break at work, we're going to go to her apartment and eat healthy, or go to a healthy restaurant, and I got an 8-week pass to Bally Fitness, where she has a membership, so we'll be going to the gym after work, hopefully, at least three days a week, starting a week from today. I'm going to set up a plan with her today, so that we can stick to it together.
I'm also wondering about diet pills, and I think I'll look on the wish board for this, but I am so tempted to try something to help me lose weight quickly, so I can get to the maintainance phase. The only thing I've tried so far was the pure hoodia, Hoodoba, which is 100% natural hoodia, with no extra ingredients (not cheap!), but it didn't seem to do anything for me! Any tips?
 







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