Paigevon
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So, just to clarify...offering suggestions on how to plan differently that might offer less stressful touring are not encouraged? Only comments by those who share your frustration and think any suggestions contrary to what they have been doing are offensive are welcome? Well then, my apologies. I'll keep my eye out for another thread which encourages others to share tips and strategies for better touring and planning practices.
I wish you all the luck in the world with your planning. I hope you finalize your plans as soon as possible and nothing gets in the way..no travel delays, no rain, no schedule changes,no resort issues, no magic band problems, etc etc etc I hope that the changes coming to MDE on April 10 present nothing but positives for you. I hope that when the details for the new Star Wars Fireworks come out, they mesh well with your finalized schedule if you will be touring at that time. I hope that if you are touring when the Anna & Elsa details are released for Norway, they mesh with your finalized schedule. if you plan to dine at Tiffins, I hope it goes well. I sincerely do.
For anyone else (whether lurking or posting), there are other ways.
I know it is difficult to infer tone and meaning from written text. Your tone feels as if it is condescending and critical of anyone who doesn't feel the same way you do. I completely understand why the individual you were conversing with felt personally called out. However, I also give you the benefit of the doubt you are truly trying to help alleviate other's stress and remind them their is another way to doing things.
That said, for someone who is unable to visit WDW often, a lot of planning is required. It is, undeniably. Yes, stressing about things that are not within your control is futile and will make anyone crazy, but maneuvering around these unknowns and possibilities is still an aspect of planning. Hoping that as many unknowns as possible are alleviated before your actual vacation arrives is completely understandable.
I think the majority of us are much less stressed and tied down to a strict plan than you believe. Yes, we'll moan and bemuse ourselves over the lack of information, we'll post silly emoji's about slamming a hammer on a computer, but it's really about camaraderie and getting through the mild frustrations together. It's much more fun to visit a thread of people who are excited to see something new and checking every day for information than it is to continously check yourself and have no one to chat with about it.
I understand your underlying message. Just because I don't personally have a laissa faire attitude about my Disney vacation planning does not mean I perceive yours as incorrect and unwelcome to be shared.