Obviously this is just my opinion but I think you should request to be in the Grandstand section and within that section you could request to be in 1 of the 2 buildings closest to the quiet pool. The GS section has a great pool with a water play area for the kids plus those 2 buildings are approximately 5 minutes (walking) away from the main pool and Carriage House. The main pool is zero entry which is great for little ones, too. If you look at a map of SSR (try the
DVC member website) you'll see the two buildings to which I'm referring. The GS section is also the first stop on the bus route for SSR if you're using Disney transportation.
Here is a link to a map that another member made....I hope it comes through. The 2 buildings are room numbers 8101-8436 and 8501-8836.
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u311/BroganMc_photos/SSRmap_enhanced.jpg