In the 20 years of marriage and the 1 year of dating before getting married I have never celebrated Valentines. I hate it, don't like, it and told her on our 2nd date that I would never celebrate it(instead I would love her like valentines every day of the year, as a husband should) but this year I have decided, even though she sort of agrees with me, she wishes she had it and would feel loved by it, so I am throwing her a surprise with all the stupid valentines crap. I bought boxed chocolates, will buy flowers the day before, bought a DQ cake and will get a card(also hate bought cards) with the
DVC announcement in it just so that she knows she is appreciated and loved, even more than I detest the philosophy and expectations of Valentines.
Let's hope she thinks the same. She didn't want Aulani when I had talked to her about DVC, she wanted BLT or AKV. Hopefully she should be excited to have tripled our current points and I will show her in the coming years that I will get lots of good reservations at resorts she wanted anyway but for a much cheaper price. A lot of our stays will be with 4 kids anyway and getting 2 bedrooms I don't think will be that tough.