This type of conflicting information is absolutely ridiculous and totally unprofessional. We encountered the same situation on our trip and it is very frustrating. I just sent the following message to disney, I will update this thread when I receive a response:
Hello, I require clarifications on one of your policies. Specifically the "rider switch" option. In the past I have travelled to disney world with a child who did non meet the minimum height requirement for some rides, and simply felt uncomfortable going on others. Where she did not meet the height req. we were given a rider switch ticket. However where she was simply uncomfortable the CM would not give us a ticket, insisting the guest must be under the height req for a ticket to be issued. This was the statement given to us every time we tried. I felt I had read something contrary to this on the disney website however. Well now that I am planning our next trip in 2018, and said child is still very afraid of riding some of the rides, i decided to try find the info. Directly on the disney world website under the rider switch information is the following statement:
if a child does not meet the height requirement or a Guest does not wish to board a particular attraction, no problem! With Rider Switch, one adult can wait with the non-rider (or riders) while the rest of the party enjoys the attraction. When the other adult returns, they can supervise the non-riding Guests, and the waiting adult can board the attraction without having to wait in the regular line again!
https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/guest-services/rider-switch/
That is clearly in direct opposition to the stance being taken at the parks. Can someone please clarify what exactly policy is, and ensure that either policy in park matches what is stated on your website, or that the website is changed to properly reflect the practises in park. It is very confusing and aggravating as it currently stands. Thank you.