Agreed.
When the DAS issue was first being "discussed" in social media there was one comment that struck me in particular. This person wrote, "No offense to parents of kids with autism, BUT if your child can't handle the noise and crowds, perhaps a theme park vacation isn't for you."
I wrote back that his comment was the same as telling the parent of a child without the ability to walk that "if your child can't handle stairs, perhaps tall buildings aren't for you."
It is not about equal experience, it's about equal ACCESS. If you do not live with a person with severe developmental and/or sensory issues it is a difficult concept to grasp.
The accommodation in question is not front-of-the-line or immediate access to attractions, it is accelerated access to attractions -- reduced wait time as had been previously provided to some, not all, who utilized the old GAC system. Certain individuals DO require accelerated access, not an "alternate waiting environment" in order to access attractions successfully.
I know that a good number of people without disabilities or intimate experience with those who have disabilities do not want to hear that, but in many cases it is true. Nevertheless, giving accelerated access to these disabled individuals is viewed as an "infringement" by people who are supportive of accommodating the disabled, but not if it means any sacrifice on their part.
Accelerated access is to some as a wheelchair ramp is to others. It is about ACCESS, not enjoyment, and certainly not entitlement.
Yes, there are lots of folks who try to game the system and, yes, it is extremely difficult if not impossible to structure and regulate such a system to ensure that every person who asks for accommodation actually requires it, especially the way the ADA is written. I'm not saying that I have the answer, because I don't.
Finally, it is truly regrettable that this complaint was written with such ridiculously emotional language that portrays these families as victims with an over-developed sense of entitlement. I do not support it and believe it has done more harm than good.
It has had an extremely negative effect on the public's acceptance of people with cognitive disabilities and it's perception of the family members who care for and advocate for them daily. Reading the many comments on this and other forums has been a very sobering experience.
Kathy
But accelerated access is another way of saying "cutting in line past all the people who have been waiting". It's bad manners.

Also when does accelerated access turn into a front of the line pass, because with the GAC you either entered through the exit or you went thru the fastpass line...to give someone an accelerated line, should we ask them how long they are able to wait and ensure they aren't having to wait longer than whatever time they say? If we do that we are back to square one, because everyone is going to say "I can't wait at all, or I can't wait more than 5 minutes, or 10 minutes, etc.
The fact is, no one wants to wait.
It's an unreasonable accommodation to assume you can go to a busy, crowded theme park and somehow magically not wait in lines.
I don't think when people say "perhaps a theme park isn't right for you" that they're being mean...they're being honest and realistic...sometimes the truth hurts...if you can't handle noise, crowds, long lines and waiting ...then disney doesn't sound like a good place for you to go


it sounds mean to say "perhaps disney isn't right for you" but we all are responsible for ourselves and our families and sometimes we have to take a hard look at what our abilities are and be realistic about what our children can and cannot handle, and make decisions accordingly. There are things we simply don't try to do with our kids because we know they can't handle it. My son is not autistic but has PTSD and cannot handle crowds, therefore it is my job as his parent to work with him to help him but it is also my job as his father to not place him into situations that are too much for him.
We cannot expect others to make unreasonable accommodations for us that would have any kind of impact on others (allowing our kids to cut ahead of all the other people waiting in line) because that's not reasonable and it's our job as parents to make decisions for our kids and take ownership of our responsibility- it's not Disney's job to handle my child with kid gloves. It's my job to know what my child can and can't handle and plan my trip accordingly. It's about personal responsibility.