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... If my daughter could have the same experience on any single day as a non-disabled guest then I would be ecstatic. Honestly I am ecstatic every day that she gets to have experiences at all. My daughter will never have a single day in her life that is "equal" to a non-disabled guest, and honestly will never have a day that is "equal" to most disabled guests. It really stings that so many people think a card with return times would provide that. If only it were that simple.![]()
I'm so very sorry your daughter has such challenges. I'm sure life in general is very different and very challenging for both her individually and your family as whole. As a mom, I understand your desire for your child to have just one "normal" day

Unfortunately, there is no way to provide an "equal experience" regardless of disability or not. Any 2 people might have very different experiences at any given attraction -- my husband loves the tea cups and roller coasters, both types of rides make me sick to my stomach. There's no way to equalize that experience. Similarly, ADA legislation recognizes and specifically states that even when establishments make reasonable accommodations for equal access, that the experience may not be equivalent.
I do agree, though, that if someone has a DAS return-time and arrives to find the ride closed, there should be a FP or something offered so the party can continue their day and get another return time for another ride just as they would if the ride had been available. Especially if such was offered to those standing in line at the time it broke down. The DAS is the equivalent to standing in line, and as such, I think I would have complained at Guest Relations if I was denied whatever was offered to standby guests in line at the same time.