I wish I could quit smoking - I do keep trying and hope that one day I will be successful. For those of you who have never smoked, you are lucky. I wish I had never started. Smoking is unbelievably addicting and one of the hardest habits to break.
That being said, I *never* smoke where I'm not supposed to. I do not smoke in a non-smoking room, and I'm more than willing to seek out the DSA and walk there even though the neuropathy in my feet sometimes makes it difficult. (Juvenile Diabetes, if you're curious.)
However, I did experience something I found extremely rude last October on vacation at Disney World. Considering that about 90% of Disney World is smoke free, considering that the DSA's are small and sometimes difficult to locate, considering that I made certain to take the time and put in the effort to seek out the DSA's and only smoke where permitted I couldn't believe this happened. My mother and I bought lunch, walked all the way to a designated smoking area carrying our lunches, sat down and ate our lunches. After finishing our meals I lit up a cigarette. My mother is not a smoker and can barely stand to be around second-hand smoke herself, but she put up with my "need" without complaint. However, the next table over there was a family of 5, 2 adults and 3 kids, who not only kept giving me dirty looks but also outright made rude and insulting comments about my smoking. I was in a designated smoking area! If you cannot stand to be around second-hand smoke then do not sit in the designated smoking areas and rudely insult the other people in the area who are following all of the rules.
Honestly, had they simply asked me nicely to stand a little further away or something, I would have accommodated them, but since they were so rude I just loudly exclaimed to my mother that people who don't want to be exposed to smoke should get out of the designated smoking area.
Sometimes non-smokers act as if us smokers are less than human. I don't want this habit and I am desparately trying to quit, but it doesn't help me any and I certainly don't feel any desire to be "nice" if non-smokers are going to invade the already small, off the beaten path areas where smoking is allowed and be jerks to those following the rules.