Cool-Beans said:
I don't know WHY you make only $3 over minimum wage with a college degree. For answers like that, you need to look at yourself.
You've said before that you have extenuating circumstances in your life that set you back and that is why you live with your parents...did that have anything to do with your employment problems?
All I know is that there isn't any law saying Teddiesgirl can't make very much money. And it isn't anyone else's fault.
I have a friend who has a GED (never finished high school!) who is making $42K working in a hotel. Another friend who never finished college making about the same working for a title company, another who started as a bank teller is now making a bunch doing some kind of high-level banking. And none of them are especially bright. So, it can be done.
Our nurse's aids make $12-14/hour - that takes a one or two week course, I think. You could try that.
I also know a guy who started out with nothing and made millions. But he is really smart.
If you want more money, go get it. It's out there. Or, believe everyone who tells you that you can't (and why) and see how happy that makes you.
Yeah. Real easy for you to say these kinds of things. First of all, I know I could never work in Nursing. Secondly, I don't have the money to pay for any kind of class. I can't even afford a car.
And as I have no car, I can't get to very many places. Especially since the public transportation in this city is crappy.
I have no one to loan money to me. I can't even pay it back if I did.
My dad can only let me live in his house. He was just recently had his pay cut in half by his job. And at his age (64) He can't get another job that pays as much as he already makes. To add to that, he just had a heart attack and can't work for awhile. And with the type of job he does, he may never go back to work. My mom died 6 yrs ago and the insurance money she left me is gone to pay my large debt at that time. Five years ago, I had to have a major operation or possibly either die or have cancer and die. That bill is still not paid off. Heck, my computer isn't even paid off and it's also 5 yrs old.
I have no employment problems other than office jobs pay crap in this city unless you're an office manager. And because all my money is going out to pay for the stuff I need to live, I sure as heck can't afford to move anywhere else. And as my life is stressfull enough, I will not go into management and/or take on a stressfull job.
Some of you people think that everyone
has to
want to go into management or move up.
Cool-Beans said:
Look at herself. If she wants more money, she has to make changes in her own life - she can't change society's values. I never said it was a bad reflection on her. Are you finding stuff between the lines that isn't there?
And what changes should I make?
Do the kind of job
you thing I should?
I can't change the fact that with all my allergies, I have to buy fairly expensive soap and shampoo just to be clean. I can't just run to the dollar store and buy any soap they have on hand. I also have to carry my soap around with me everywhere I go. Which means I have to use more of it than you do of your own soap.
Due to my body shape and size, I have to spend more on my clothes and shoes than I can really afford. And that's only when I have to have clothes. I'm still wearing some shirts and pants I bought 5 yrs ago. As I am well developed, I also have to spend more on my undergarments. I have to have a 5EE shoe which is extremely hard to find. I recently had no choice (as my old shoes were falling apart) but to spend $330 for
3 pairs of shoes just to have for work. And that was finding them as cheap as I possibly could. And that's not all I have to worry about. I also have no health insurance through my job. And I sure as heck can't afford to buy it on my own.
I have been looking to find another job that I can do that pays more. It's just not there right now. At least, not anywhere that I can physically get to.
I have also sold stuff online for years just to try to make extra money. For a while, that worked really well. But it no longer does for me as I have nothing left of value to sell.
Gee. I can't change my body without money for major surgery. I cetainly can't change my body chemistry so that I'm no longer allergic to perfumes that are in almost everything. Gee, who the hell is going to give me a large loan to start whatever business you think I should start as I have extremely bad credit (due to all my problems).
So, you tell me. What the hell should I change?
You have no idea what people go thru and how their finances are, what their circumstances are or anything. So do not make assumptions about anyone.
So you really need to shut your mouth and stop insinuating that people are lazy or stupid.