We're not in the Charlotte area, so this is more a general opinion of NC...I love it here!
Due to my prior profession, I spent more than a decade or so moving around the country. Prior to that, my family and I split our time between CA and Hawaii, which is where we're from. I've lived in San Francisco, San Jose, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Maryland, and now NC. Because of extended family, I've also frequently visited SD, AZ, and MS. Of all of the places I've called home, NC and Hawaii are it for me.
I love the people here, the weather, the sweet tea (LOL)...okay, so I don't like NC-style BBQ but I'm not gonna quibble about it. This is a beautiful state and yes, like everywhere else right now, we've got some issues with unemployment. Hopefully, that'll change in the next couple of years. Overall though, this is a great place to live, IMO.