relationships.

[3mtn-kate]

I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in about 2 weeks. We've only been together since April, my favorite thing about him is he can read me so well. He has kind of a sixth sense to when I'm upset or whatever I'm feeling. We're not fighting or anything but we haven't talked at all. I'm not sure why, I think we're loosing it. Not really in a bad way though. Like it doesn't feel bad, it kind of feels like the end was coming anyways. Like he's phasing me out of his life.

I don't want to break up though, I know how I feel but I've never known how he feels. He's not the greatest communicator *but then again, what guy is? *

I don't know what to do...

 

[Babyjustrun]

I don't really...
Have a crush right now. I don't know if I like this guy anymore, I haven't seen him in two months.
But, what I like about him...
He's adorable, most people say he looks like a monkey, but I disagree, but maybe that's because I think he is a beautiful person inside and out. He's funny and sweet, he knows what to say to me to make me feel better, and he's never made me upset. Whenever he says something potentially mean, he turns right around and says 'You know I don't mean that.' When he knows I'm upset with him, he tries to make me change my mind.
He doesn't seem to question all my oddities. He's a JW. While it's not a good thing as far as being with him goes, I think it's a good thing too. He doesn't swear and stuff, his religion gives him good basic morals. He's not like most guys, really, he listens to good music. And he's nice and isn't always thinking about the quickest way to get with a girl. He wants to be friends.

My favorite time this year with him, was every single music class. He'd come sit next to me, he'd steal my ipod, he'd purposely steal my friends seat... We had the best time in that class. And French class was good too.

But back in June he went on vacation before school ended, but when he came back it was just in time for exams. I had no exams, so I didn't see him at all. I don't have his number, just his MSN, so I haven't really spoken to him.

I'm hoping when school starts, I have at least a class with him, and we can resume things where they were, or at least start over with the same relationship.

 

[3mtn-kate]

I don't really...
Have a crush right now. I don't know if I like this guy anymore, I haven't seen him in two months.
But, what I like about him...
He's adorable, most people say he looks like a monkey, but I disagree, but maybe that's because I think he is a beautiful person inside and out. He's funny and sweet, he knows what to say to me to make me feel better, and he's never made me upset. Whenever he says something potentially mean, he turns right around and says 'You know I don't mean that.' When he knows I'm upset with him, he tries to make me change my mind.
He doesn't seem to question all my oddities. He's a JW. While it's not a good thing as far as being with him goes, I think it's a good thing too. He doesn't swear and stuff, his religion gives him good basic morals. He's not like most guys, really, he listens to good music. And he's nice and isn't always thinking about the quickest way to get with a girl. He wants to be friends.

My favorite time this year with him, was every single music class. He'd come sit next to me, he'd steal my ipod, he'd purposely steal my friends seat... We had the best time in that class. And French class was good too.

But back in June he went on vacation before school ended, but when he came back it was just in time for exams. I had no exams, so I didn't see him at all. I don't have his number, just his MSN, so I haven't really spoken to him.

I'm hoping when school starts, I have at least a class with him, and we can resume things where they were, or at least start over with the same relationship.

thats cute

 

[Babyjustrun]

Aw thanks.
I never really looked at it as cute, idk. It's like, I don't know if our friendship meant more to me than him.
I remember one time we were in the media lab watching something on youtube, and he was laughing so hard and I could tell he was crying real hard not to like rest his head on my leg or hit it. I don't know if that makes sense? You know sometimes how you would laugh into something or someone?
Like that. But it would be really awkward cause youknwo...

My friend said that he definitely liked me back, and she kept badgering him to ask me out... But I don't know if he didn't because he didn't like me that way, or because he's really not allowed to. I never told him. Dunno if I ever will.
A lot of people used to accuse us of flirting way over the top. Like 'Stop flirting and just go out, you guys are starting to make us dry heave.'

 

[Cinderelli16]

whats your favorite thing about them? I don't have a favorite thing...I love everything about him.

what was your first date like? Haven't had one

how long have you been together? Well as crushes....about 2-3 weeks.

Oh and everyone knows who it is. lol

 

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

I'm always crushing on a few people.. but I've never been in a relationship.

There's this one guy, I met at this school-camp thing that lasted a week, and during that time I developed this massive crush on him. But he lives a few hours away, which is too far. :l
He's 14, and he's 6'2. He has really pretty blue eyes and he's really easy to talk to. But I guess I don't really know him that well, because, well, I only knew him for a week. But--I dream about him a lot... I know that sounds creepy, but it's true.

And I have a crush on my best friend's brother - but not her older brother, her younger brother, but only by a year, and my friend is two years older than me, so my friend's brother is a year older than me. Lol. We'll be going to the same school this year, so who knows what could happen.

and bah, there's more. but whatever. lol.

 

[Babyjustrun]

i wanna list a few more things cause i'm kinda bored.
i love his eyes, they're beautiful. i can't tell if they're hazel or green, but they're beautiful.
i also love, how tall he is. like ridiculously. even if he's as skinny as the pole that my friend ran into in like grade six (ahaha okay) he looks good that way. i like to think even though we'd look like idiots together (he's definitely over six foot, no idea how much though, and I'm not even 5 foot), it'd be cute?
Heh.

 

[xx-bethh]

relationships..oh boy
i have absolutley no luck with them
either i like a guy, we have a "thing" and then it turns into nothing
i like a guy that i have no chance with what so ever
or all the wrong guys like me, loll

as for now, i am single, and kinda crushing
not really though,
the guy i was "crushing" on is soo sweet & funny, basically, hes awesome
soo he texted me and was like, where are you ?
so im like, at my house ? why
and hes like, im coming to get you, we're going to the fireworks
(there were fireworks tn for canal days, this festival my town puts on every civic holiday weekend)
so im like, alright,
and then he texts me like, 5 minutes later, and hes like, change in plans, sorry, ttyl bye

AND IDN WHAT HAPPENED
i have a feeling he was hanging with a girl who was one of my best friends, but then she totally stabbed me in the back. ugh. whatever.
hope my mom doesnt see this, cuz shes a DISlurker
i felt like venting, sorry if i bore you

 

[BandGeek911]

I like (or liked..I haven't seen him since school ended)a guy and I don't know if he knew I exsisted.

Well, he might....in July he called me..I didn't know it was him...I asked my friend if she knew the number and she said it was him...and I did pick up the phone when he called. It was all staticy and we got disconnected though ):
It was probably one of his friends messing with his phone or something.. :/

And..I've never been in a relationship. I don't mind though.

 

[pigletgirl]

I'm not in any relationship right now. I've btdt many times, and for now I'm happy to be single. Plus most guys in college are really immature.

 

[Pearls]

I kind of fail at relationships.
I always break it off within a month.
The whole 'long term relationship' thing hasn't worked. I guess I just havn't met the right guy?
and my crushes change so often, its ridiculous. I would have figured I would have grown out of this by seventeen, but aparently not. Its like 'ooh, hes cute, i like him! oh, but wait, that boys cuter, now I like him!'
I think I'm doomed to just 'date' my whole life. D:

 

[♥DizzyDizney♥]

whats your favorite thing about them? His personality, and his smile.
what was your first date like? All I could remember was, I was scared.
how long have you been together? 5-6 months?

 

[marcybaby]

Haha, I think I'm the only teenager in America who hasn't been in a relationship in four years. I don't like them. The girls get annoying. They expect too much. I can't flirt or talk to other girls. It's a waste of my time.

I don't think girls are like that whele i know im not like that! Why do you think that?
wb

 

[Ampris]

Hehe, wish I could join the conversation, but I've never been in a relationship, never had a crush-- nothing. Hoping that'll change sometime, but eh, probably not.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I wondered how long it would take someone to realize that it was part of a song.

The Bad Touch - Bloodhound Gang

Amazing song. I can only wonder what the inside joke is...

Lmfao I noticed it right away when I read it! Haha! I love that song! XD

---------------------------------------------------
So, tomorrow was supposed to be our 2 month anniversary. But we had an issue early on causing a little breakup. But then we got back together so it was ok. lol But I love my boyfriend to death. He's the funniest, sweetest, cutest guy ever! He's absolutely perfect in every way!

 

[DramaQueen]

I've actually been @ the beach with my BF this past weekend so I missed this topic, but obv. I have to gush!!

Derek & I have been dating for 2 yrs and 2 months!!!
On our first date we went mini-putting AND to laser tag, and then both of us agreed that we didn't want to date to end so we just drove around for like....an hour!
He asked me out a couple of weeks later at the park near my house.

I don't know how we got so lucky to find each other, but everything has been PERFECT the whole time.
We barely fight or argue, and if we do we immediatley fix the problem.
He is sooo understanding and sensitive (when he needs to be).

He goes to a diff. university than me now and he lives on campus, so during the school yr we don't get to see each other as often as we would like, so it gets really hard and I miss him alot. But we've stuck it out this long and I think we might be in it for the long haul because I can't imagine my life without him!

We won prom king & queen in HS, for our 1st yr anniversary we went to the Outback and he bought me my favourite flowers, for our 2nd yr anniversary we went to toronto for the day and had such a good time! he got my this little chest with 3 drawers and in each of the drawers was a 25$ gift card to my 3 fave stores!!

We've had some tough breaks this summer with his lacrosee & work schdule, he was supposed to come see Jack Johnson with me this past sunday (it was his bday gift!) but he couldnt because of lacrosse, it sucked because JJ sings "our" song. AND he can't come to WDW with us anymore because of work.

But we're not letting any of that get us down and we are just spending all the time we can together before he has to go back to school.

He always does the sweetest things for me and just continues to amaze me everyday!!

I love him soooo much and I can't believe how lucky we are to have found true love at such a young age!!

 

[jbcheerchick93]

we-llll

lets see.

whats your favorite thing about them? :: everything! his smile, his laugh, the way he looks at me, the way he'll text me in the morning, even though im still asleep, just to say he loves me. and HIS EYES! omgsh!

what was your first date like? :: still getiing to that...cause i've been gone so much, and as soon as i get home, he leaves, and its not fun but we talk a lot. its gonna be mini golfing though.

how long have you been together? :: we-lll that depends on how you look at it. since he actually asked me, 1 week and 4 days. but i like to count since the first time he said he loved me and we started planning our whole future that would be 2 months and 11 days. but he counts from when he asked me.


y'know, i think we always knew that it would happen!

 

[xox_Violet_xox]

hehe well, his names Gary and he's 2 days older than mee!

we've been friends since 2005, and his mum was friends with my granny, and worked with my granda, so o had met him in the past at my grannys funeral and whatnot

but there was always that thing between us, even though when we properly became friends we were only 13 at the time, but we were just different with each other!

he'd known he liked me since about mid-august, our birthdays, and kept it going until november when i figured out i liked him back!

we hardly ever have fights, if we do, we just have to look at each other and we burst out laughing!

he absolutely spoils me, its actually ridiculous, hes bought me necklaces, perfumes, clothes, teddies, an iPod, a pink snowboard with bindings, and he's taken me to dinner, movies, bowling and concerts more times than i cn remember! He insists its because he cant spend his money from his web development job on anythin for him because he's bought everything he needs haha!

my fave thing about him? ooohh idkk! the fact he had a crush on me for a good few months and didnt give up on me, he's sweet, he's caring, hes absolutely hilarious, he understands me, he's like my best friend, i can tell him anything,
he can read me like a book, he spoils me rotten and calls me his princess, he always tells me im beautiful and goes in a huff if i tell him im not, how he always texts me, the way he looks when he's sleeping, when i just wake up and he's beside me already awake whispering he loves me in my ear, his smile, his laugh, his family and everything about him pretty much, even him winding me up until a scream haha!

first date?
we dont really do proper dates over here lol! we just hung out down at the park next to the beach to be honest haha!

how long?
since 12th November 06, so itl be 21 months on his birthday

nearly 2 yearsss! im excited haah!

 

[jbcheerchick93]

hehe well, his names Gary and he's 2 days older than mee!

we've been friends since 2005, and his mum was friends with my granny, and worked with my granda, so o had met him in the past at my grannys funeral and whatnot

but there was always that thing between us, even though when we properly became friends we were only 13 at the time, but we were just different with each other!

he'd known he liked me since about mid-august, our birthdays, and kept it going until november when i figured out i liked him back!

we hardly ever have fights, if we do, we just have to look at each other and we burst out laughing!

he absolutely spoils me, its actually ridiculous, hes bought me necklaces, perfumes, clothes, teddies, an iPod, a pink snowboard with bindings, and he's taken me to dinner, movies, bowling and concerts more times than i cn remember! He insists its because he cant spend his money from his web development job on anythin for him because he's bought everything he needs haha!

my fave thing about him? ooohh idkk! the fact he had a crush on me for a good few months and didnt give up on me, he's sweet, he's caring, hes absolutely hilarious, he understands me, he's like my best friend, i can tell him anything,
he can read me like a book, he spoils me rotten and calls me his princess, he always tells me im beautiful and goes in a huff if i tell him im not, how he always texts me, the way he looks when he's sleeping, when i just wake up and he's beside me already awake whispering he loves me in my ear, his smile, his laugh, his family and everything about him pretty much, even him winding me up until a scream haha!

first date?
we dont really do proper dates over here lol! we just hung out down at the park next to the beach to be honest haha!

how long?
since 12th November 06, so itl be 21 months on his birthday

nearly 2 yearsss! im excited haah!

everyones stories are absolutely adorable...but this one is extra cute!!!! like awwww its soooo sweeet!

 

[Loves Disney]

I wish I could share a story about my boyfriend but alas...I have none. But since I'm a female who is interested in a male...he's pretty much all I can think about meaning I can't resist this thread haha.

I'm pretty much digging myself into a hole because it's a complicated situation. He recently broke up with his girlfriend (with whom he had a very romantic, movie-esque relationship with) and he is right now focused more inward than anything else. But I can't help but fall for him still.

We've been friends for just about a year, perhaps a little over a year, and our friendship just kept getting stronger and stronger over the past months. Everytime we hung out or talked to each other, we found ourselves getting closer and closer as friends. We would go for walks around campus together, eat dinner together, and he began to pretty much live in my room as he was always there visiting (my poor roommate! haha).

Before my Disney trip this summer, him and I went to the beach for the day and I spent the night at his house. He took me out into the ocean that day...I have NEVER been able to walk into the ocean deeper than my ankles! haha I've always been too afraid. But I went shoulder deep and he kept assuring me that I was okay. lol. I felt so safe with him! Needless to say, I couldn't help but fall for him even more!

We walked around the shoreline looking for conch shells haha. I had never found one so we were trying to see if perhaps we would stumble upon one. Then, on our walk back to the beach towel we had, the sun was setting and all I wanted was to be something more with him. But we're just friends. The sunset was amazingly beautiful. Picture perfect with the most gorgeous colors!

The next day we discovered that after 9 hours on the beach, the both of us were burnt to a crisp! lol. It was so funny as we tried to move around his house lol. But because we're such geniuses, we decided to go to the beach again. We went to a smaller beach this time and didn't go in the water, just walked around. We got to this one hallow with large rocks stretching out a bit and tall grass next to the base of them. the little cove area was FILLED with some of the most gorgeous shells! We found really strange shells and I told him they were wishing shells and I proceeded to throw the one I found into the ocean after making a wish. He did the same and then went, found his shell, and gave it to me and asked me to make a wish on the same one! That was SOO cute and didn't help my case lol. I wished so badly we were more! But we're just friends. Then I found a shell that had not broken so it was still it's full two parts. I started to click the two parts together as if it was an instrument and he took it from me and made fun of me by mocking my musical shell! lol. Then, he ripped the thing into two pieces and gave me one half as he stored the other half in his pocket. He told me to keep it. Um...I could have just died lol.

Then, after this, we decided to get pizza. I thought we'd just eat it there in the shop but he told me there was this pretty hill right next to the place that overlooked the ocean and that we would eat it there. I LOVE the ocean and he knows this so he knew I'd enjoy this lol. When we got there he found shade under a tree and told me we could sit here and eat it. So the both of us sat there, under the tree, eating pizza, watching the ocean. It was amazing! Then...because life's a b**** sometimes, there would be a wedding in the gazebo right next to us! We saw some people gathering around the gazebo and soon enough, we saw the bride and groom. It was the most casual wedding ever and so public! We saw them get married. I was almost sick at this point knowing that as much as I wished I had love like this couple, I couldn't because the man I like so much is just a friend.

After this day, I got so deeply in like with this guy that I felt like all fears and hesitations I have ever had in my life disappeared. I had started a thread a while ago on this forum about this man and asked what I should do and everyone said to just tell him how I felt. That's a difficult thing to do when the guy is your best friend! Well, I did. I told him exactly how I felt about him. He told me, much to my happiness, that he had been thinking the same way about me. He told me I am the type of girl he could see himself with and that he would be with me. But...he let me know that he isn't looking for a relationship right now - but that one never knows what might happen later. Our friendship is still very strong and there is no awkwardness that I had feared would come of me confessing such feelings! Now, I can only hope that maybe once school starts back up, us friends can finally be more than just friends.