A friend of mine started a discussion about happiness recently. It made me think alot this morning.....
This past week has been emotional and dramatic on a number of fronts here in Norway. Even though this is not my real life, it is now a part of my life and it affects my day. It influences me. Strange, huh? Perhaps, but maybe not. I want to say I am so glad that this little corner of our world is back and I again know where I can find some of my favorite souls.
During this maelstrom we sailed into and eventually, through, I did alot of thinking. Why was I so upset at some ugly words I read? Why did Mel's possible departure make me so sad? Why did the sinking cause me to frantically search for a new home for this crew?
It came to me simply this morning. I was listening to Paul McCartney's new album, Chaos and Creation in the Backyard. Here is a song I listened to a lot this whole past week.
Laugh, when your eyes are burning
Smile, when your heart is filled with pain
Sigh, as you brush away your sorrow
Make a vow, that's it's not going to happen again
It's not right, in one life
Too much rain
You, know the wheels keep turning
Why, do the tears run down your face
We, use to hide away our feelings
But for now, tell yourself it won't happen again
It's not right, in one life
Too much rain
It's too much for anyone, Too hard for anyone
Who wants a happy and peaceful life
You've gotta learn to laugh
[Guitar solo]
Smile, when your spinning round and round
Sigh, as you think about tomorrow
Make a vow, that your gonna be happy again
It's all right, in your life
No more rain
It's too much for anyone, Too hard for anyone
Who wants a happy and peaceful life
You've gotta learn to laugh
I wish I could put the melody here along with these lyrics. It is such a beautiful song. It is also raining here where I live, again and this metaphor by Mr. McCartney summed up perfectly what was going on for me.
Happiness. You guys make me laugh and smile and think. Is anyone ever eternally happy? My friend posed that question. They related that they define happiness and sadness by moments in their life....rather than feeling these things continually or characterizing themselves as having one particular emotion. I had never looked at this that way. It actually made alot of sense.
Life is a series of events. They are not going to all make you happy. But I want as many of the moments in my life to be as joyous as possible. How you look at things, really can affect the outcome of your feelings. It is in one's control to put the challenges in perspective, laugh and move on. I think alot of people do that very well here. So I am feeling great that we are once again afloat and all those wonderful tidbits that people here so graciously share keep pouring in.....
Laughter, guys.......................it is such a fastpass! Thanks to all of you for giving me that. I mean that with all sincerity. Have a great day!
