Quitting College Athletics, Advice Needed

Does playing the sport override the misery of being around these people? I am a stuborn type and would stick around and make THEIR lives miserable.. It's only a few days you said left in the season.. Honestly the coaches sound horrible. You said reporting to admins is fruitless, but are their other ways to make these people lives miserable?
 
Does playing the sport override the misery of being around these people? I am a stuborn type and would stick around and make THEIR lives miserable.. It's only a few days you said left in the season.. Honestly the coaches sound horrible. You said reporting to admins is fruitless, but are their other ways to make these people lives miserable?
:confused: How exactly would one do this without getting obsessive and creepy? It doesn’t seem like very wise advice to someone struggling to maintain mental health.
 

:confused: How exactly would one do this without getting obsessive and creepy? It doesn’t seem like very wise advice to someone struggling to maintain mental health.
I just thinks it's fair to treat others as they treat you..Her teammates sound like horrible people and need to be treated as such. Has nothing to do with mental health.
 
I just thinks it's fair to treat others as they treat you..Her teammates sound like horrible people and need to be treated as such. Has nothing to do with mental health.
Here's the thing to me... based on her posts, she has now been on three different teams, ALL of which "ostracized her". Would I believe someone can join a single team and be treated unfairly and "mean"? Sure. TWO teams are treating you poorly? Eh, ok, but seems the probability is slipping. A THIRD team is also filled with "meanies"? To me, that is all but unbelievable. If that's really happened, either the person is EXTREMELY unlucky with the teams they join, or they're doing something to cause teammates to act like that.
 
Does playing the sport override the misery of being around these people? I am a stuborn type and would stick around and make THEIR lives miserable.. It's only a few days you said left in the season.. Honestly the coaches sound horrible. You said reporting to admins is fruitless, but are their other ways to make these people lives miserable?
Not sure I'd want that rep following around me around, although come to think of it wonder if the OP already has a known rep from the other teams 🤔
 
I just thinks it's fair to treat others as they treat you..Her teammates sound like horrible people and need to be treated as such. Has nothing to do with mental health.
:rolleyes1If we're accepting the OP as legit, it certainly does. By her own account, her mental illness (now being treated) is what derailed her relationship with this roommate and team last year. Recommending she get nasty and vindictive with them is pretty fraught.
 
I just thinks it's fair to treat others as they treat you..Her teammates sound like horrible people and need to be treated as such. Has nothing to do with mental health.
She has stated in other threads that that she has had issues in the past with talking about other players and saying derogatory things about her team. The team may be treating her as she has treated them.

Not sure any of us know the whole picture of this situation.
 
The girls sound like middle or high schoolers. I swear, my daughter is in middle school and those behaviors sound very familiar. Far from adult behavior. Even if you are doing something that upsets the team - they need to discuss the matter, not ice you out of everything like children not inviting someone to their slumber party.
 





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