Your questioning your membership in part because someone forgot to as "Welcome home"? Give your head a shake. They're only 2 words.
Disney should never have started this... Particularly at VWL where there more non-DVC guests than members, I'm sure it's difficult for CM's to keep on to of this. It's probably an annoyance in their process. With member expectations set higher than regular guests, and as veteran guests we probably work the system more, we're probably a more of a pain to deal with than a regular guest.
Give'em a break.
Disney should never have started this... Particularly at VWL where there more non-DVC guests than members, I'm sure it's difficult for CM's to keep on to of this. It's probably an annoyance in their process. With member expectations set higher than regular guests, and as veteran guests we probably work the system more, we're probably a more of a pain to deal with than a regular guest.
Give'em a break.
No biggie. I was just pointing out something, too.
If little touches like "welcome home" can add a little magic to our stay and make us feel a little important for making our investment I think that is an OK thing to want. 
Kupiech not getting the "welcome home" greeting on top of the other things was not acceptable. I think if everything else had gone ok, they might not have missed the "welcome" as much. 