Question for the women here...

[MuNkY]

So anywho, today I asked my dad for some money. Was planning on going to CVS, McDonalds, then a friend's house. Well anywho, I'm at McDonalds. I get my food and sit down. I hadn't noticed it before but I was sitting by this GOOD looking girl. She was probably in her late 30s-early 40s, but she sure wasn't showing it. She was leaving, and immediately caught my attention.

Then I spotted her daughter. I'm thinking, "wow...she's hot". She was too. Very pretty. Nice hair. Good figure. Developed...shall we say. I'm sitting there starting to get turned on by her.

Then I think...wait a second. I took a second glance at her, and realized she was probably like, 13-14. So my question is, is it alright for a guy my age, (16) to see girls like this and well, turn into a guy (for lack of a better word)...or should I feel like a complete perv?

I'm not sure myself. I mean, you see girls like this all the time now. Girls seem to be developing younger and younger. I've seen 12 year olds who I could've swore were 16 before I found out. Also not to mention, a lot more girls are wearing clothing that well, shows themselves off. It's getting harder to tell how old someone is now-a-days.

So what do you all think?

 

[UniversalDaniel]

Yeah man I know how it is :\ I see 12-14 year old girls who I think are hot a lot...it makes me feel kinda dirty. But I'm a guy! its natural..

 

[EeyoreFan1]

I'm 13, but I'm not hot, or even attractive under any circumstances, and some people say I look like I'm 9, and some people have said I look 15. I personally, wouldn't call you a perv, I don't think thats wrong. Although to me, age is only a number.

 

[Jasmine45]

I'm 13, but I'm not hot, or even attractive under any circumstances, and some people say I look like I'm 9, and some people have said I look 15. I personally, wouldn't call you a perv, I don't think thats wrong. Although to me, age is only a number.

Omg, jess. You are SO pretty!


But, I don't think your a perv.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

most people think i'm in HS. well okay i am now. but back when i was say 11-12 they were like are you excited for college? and i'm like excuse me?!

soo yeah i don't think that's wrong, mike.
you can think whoever you want is attractive.
just as long as you don't, well, persue it.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

There's no problem with thinking a young girl is good looking, as long as you don't start dating her. That'd be perverted!

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

I dont really think that makes you a perv. I mean guys get turned on by 12 years old alot, because of their body figures. So dont worry about it, its normal.

I've seen 12-13 year old boys and some of them are pretty hot. Yeah, they are. But Jess even though I've never seen a picture of you, you must be pretty, so no worries!

 

[AngienLuLu]

There's nothing wrong with that. My friend is 16 and likes a 13 year old. It's not a big deal. But if you think about it, the majority of married couples in the world aren't the same age. My parents are 3 years apart.

So no, you're not a perv. ;] It's perfectly normal. And okay.

 

[lilmissparadox]

i dont think youre a perv, either. youre a guy, and youre thinking like one, too. theres nothing to be ashamed of.

 

[::Snow_White::]

I don't see a problem with it. Sounds fine to me.

 

[AngelInDisguise]

Your just a guy, not a perv.

But I wouldn't want to date a guy that was 16, but thats just me.

 

[CastawayJ]

this once again proves that our minds will make us seem like idiots but we realy arent

 

[Sparx]

Yes Mike. You are a perv and you should be ashamed of yourself. bad mike.


Nah. Just joking. I would've probably thought the same thing. Girls in sixth/seventh grade have a better figure than I do. haha

 

[JoJoBee]

I just turned 14 in the beginning of August and would be extremely flattered if an older guy would think I was hot. I don't think anything is wrong with it.

 

[tinkerbellblondie19]

I am that kind of girl. 13, almost 14, and fairly developed. Personally, I don't think it's perv-ish until it's an 17-18 year old looking at a 13-14 year old or a 15-16 year old looking at an 11-12 year old.

 

[pigletgirl]

Its fine as long as you don't give off a gross look. KWIM?

 

[BabyPiglet]

Definitely not pervy.

Don't worry.

 

[DramaQueen]

if you were 25 that would be a different story...but you're only 16. don't sweat it man.

I really don't think it's that big of a deal to date younger people (even if they are 13!) if two people have a mutual like for each other, what's the problem?

there have been a few times where i've seen a cute looking guy and then realized they were probably 14 years old....and then i feel old.

 

[chevyxxroks]

i dont think that its perverted.

id b flattered if a guy thought that about me, not disgusted​

 

[CastawayJ]

too bad you dont know her