Question for the guys...and the girls.

[BabyPiglet]

So guys, what do you look for in a girl?

I mean, most girls know what they'd love in a guy but we rarely hear from you. I'm sure not ALL guys are going after what's portrayed on TV. So c'mon. I'm curious. What's your ideal lady?

And girls, what do you look for in a guy?

Since guys are gonna be on this thread anyways, I thought I'd help them out a little too.

 

[Sparx]

i want someone who can make me laugh. humor is so huge for me.
i want someone who isn't going to be all shy and delicate with me. i'm not made of porcelain, i won't get broken. i can play with the boys.
i want someone who will talk to me. i text a lot, so someone who i can have conversations with.
i want someone who will talk about our problems. someone who isn't afraid to hurt my feelings, if it means saving our relationship.
i want someone who can eat in a 5 star french restaurant on a date. but i also wants someone who can stay in and order pizza and play guitar hero.
i want someone who will make me happy, and someone i can make happy.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Hmph.

This is odd, and its going to sound odd but here it goes.

I look for personality.
I look for friendship.
I look for no money to be spent on me, but just the suggestion
I look for laughs.
I look for an honor roll student, but not a goody goody.
I look for maturity.
I look for semi-flirt with me and only me- even if we ARE going out.
I look for smiles.
I look for compliments, yet, the truth.
I look for honesty.
Yet...
I don't look.
Not at all.
In fact its more of a stumble.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

I have some similarities and differences. Since I'm bi, you could say I get the best of both!

Girls: Dark hair (find it damn sexxy), pretty eyes, nice hips (don't ask), great smile, confident, funny, smart, loves to laugh, likes (or at least TOLERATES) musicals, loves me for me, protective (without being overly so), comforting, up for some serious snuggling, talks to me whenever I need her, listens to me, can trust me, it goes on and on.

Guys: Pretty much the same as girls (minus the hips, naturally!). And let's see...athletic, I guess. But not too much.

And for both, they'd be my lover AND my best friend

 

[BabyPiglet]

Well mostly, I want someone who wants me back.

Other than that...

Protective (I just have a thing for it I guess)
Loving
Intense
Funny

Uhm, in that order I think.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

i want someone who:

makes me smile at everything.
protects me
cuddles
has inside jokes with me
wants to be with me as much as i want to be with him
someone strong
athletic
tells me why we are together
can just hang out or eat out at a fancy place
gets along with my parents
respects my wishes
gets all of my stupid jokes
doesnt act different just because hes around his, or my, friends
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i guess the most important thing to me is that he always makes me smile. wether its just getting a text from him, or us joking, or him smiling at me first.

i don't know. those are the important things. if i think of other stuff i'll add that too.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Well, me and my crush was actually talking about this the other day.

I want a guy that is:
smart
athletic
funny
crazy
sweet
flirty
and he actaully has all the qualities. He is a super smart, honor roll student.
He plays football, track and tennis. Im a sucker for football players. He is absolutely hilarious, he can make me laugh by just sitting there and looking at me. He is extremely crazy, he's up for anything at anytime. It kinda scares me that hes not scared of anything. Sweet?? mmhmm definitely. And he's the flirtiest boy I've ever liked. . I went to the fair with him yesterday, and he kept trying to trip me, and tickle me, he would put his arm around me when we was walking.

When we was talking about this he said that guys look for a girl who:
they can have fun with
is smart
someone that believes them and not everyone else.
a girl who is confident in herself.

He said this word for word, im reading it in a text.
"A lot of people think guys want a slutty girl that they can do "it" with. Well some guys do, but they always end up falling for the sweet confident girl that believes in herself, and doesn't try to impress everyone else, someone who isnt afraid to be themselves."

 

[reminisce]

i want someone who:
-will be completely honest with me
-has a sense of humor *but doesnt go overboard with it!*
-is extremely protective
-is empathetic
-is understanding
-likes my quirks, and has a few of his own
-slightly athletic
-understands my love for music
-has eyes you could stare into forever
-doesnt get all romantic
-flirts outrageously, but not obscenely
-wants me for my personality, not appearance
-does okay in school (otherwise i cant go anywhere with him because of my mom)
-acts around me the same, always; with or without his friends around
-will confide in me and listen to my confidences


there are more, of course, but those are the most important ones to me

 

[::Snow_White::]

Someone who won't mind me going coupon crazy saving money. (I hate spending money that you don't have to!)
Someone who is fine with my different taste in music.
Someone who's fine with ordering out and playing video games all night.
Someone who is funny, smart, nice/kind/sweet.
Someone who is respectful and honest and trusts me as well.
Someone who can laugh at themselves.
Someone who is laidback but serious when he needs to be.
Someone who doesn't ask me if I'm ok when I'm not smiling.
Someone who understands my thinking face from my worried face.
Someone who when I say they can pick the movie, they pick it or when I say they can pick the resturant, they pick it.
Someone who would give me flowers randomly instead of on valentines day or other holiday.
Someone who will talk to me and listen to me at the same time.
Someone who isn't too attached and gives me space. I need time alone with girl friends as I would believe they would too.
Someone who supports my dreams and will compromise if they disagree.
Someone who is pretty calm in conversations or when angry.
Someone who doesn't mind going on walks in the park, beach, or going to museums.
Someone who understands I have many things to take care of along with a relationship and will forgive me for being pushy, uncaring, or irritable and try to help me in anyway possible as I tend to be all 3 every so often even if I don't notice it and really don't mean to be.
And of course, someone who shares my love of disney or at least is OK with it.

ETA:
Someone who loves or at least ok with kids. I love kids and I tend to be around them alot.
Someone who is mature and respects their family and friends and just has fun. I'm a very family and friend person.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Someone who's funny
Someone who isn't shy
Someone who would like me because of my personality
Someone who would stick up for me no matter what
Someone who is confident
Someone who likes the type of music that I like
Someone who will talk to me and give me advice when I need it

 

[Axel]

I want:

Somebody who can go from a discussion about the French Revolution to last night's baseball game without blinking.
Somebody who can tell me I'm beautiful but still point out my flaws when I'm being a *****.
Somebody who isn't afraid to break me. Like Shelby said, I'm not a porcelain doll.
Somebody who will hold me and let me ruin their favorite shirt by crying on it because I had a bad day.
Somebody who enjoys Disney and thrill rides.
Somebody who isn't afraid to try new things.
Somebody who doesn't mind traveling.
Somebody who can eat at a place like Shula's one night and then grab hot dogs at Casey's Corner the next.
Somebody who doesn't think they have to explain the rules of every sport to me just because I'm a girl.
Somebody who will laugh at me when I do something stupid instead of trying to make it seem normal.
Somebody who can laugh at themselves when they do something stupid.
Somebody willing to stand up for me even if I'm not around.
Somebody who gives good hugs and isn't afraid to do so in public.
Somebody who throws random WWE trivia into daily conversation just to see if I catch it.
Somebody who respects that I don't drink and that I never will.
Somebody who won't look down on my for self-harming in my past.
Somebody who understands why I don't like my parents.
Somebody who won't badmouth my teams so long as I don't badmouth theirs.
Somebody with good taste in music.
Somebody I can have an intelligent conversation with.
Somebody who understands my love for all things Canadian.
Somebody who gets the fact that when I wear faery wings to school, it usually means I was really depressed the night before.
Somebody who knows that I have a huge perfume addiction and doesn't mind.
Somebody who knows I have a huge weakness for expensive things, but only when I buy them for myself. I hate it when people give me expensive gifts.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I'm bi.
Somebody who understands that every once in a while I have to watch Brokeback Mountain just because I needed a reason to cry.
Somebody who understands that I have a huge spot in my heart for Heath Ledger.
Somebody who is willing to educate me about Star Wars/Star Trek and is willing to learn about Stargate/Firefly.
Somebody who doesn't mind that my family is as dysfunctional as nobody else's.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I like to buy organic instead of who-knows-what.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I'll pay extra for the product that's going to donate money to a foundation that I like.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I like to fall asleep with an arm around my shoulders and a wrestling match on TV.
Somebody who understands my religion and why I chose it.
Somebody who doesn't care that I'd rather have a ruby set in platinum than a diamond set in gold.

 

[reminisce]

Someone who won't mind me going coupon crazy saving money. (I hate spending money that you don't have to!)
Someone who is fine with my different taste in music.
Someone who's fine with ordering out and playing video games all night.
Someone who is funny, smart, nice/kind/sweet.
Someone who is respectful and honest and trusts me as well.
Someone who can laugh at themselves.
Someone who is laidback but serious when he needs to be.
Someone who doesn't ask me if I'm ok when I'm not smiling.
Someone who understands my thinking face from my worried face.
Someone who when I say they can pick the movie, they pick it or when I say they can pick the resturant, they pick it.
Someone who would give me flowers randomly instead of on valentines day or other holiday.
Someone who will talk to me and listen to me at the same time.
Someone who isn't too attached and gives me space. I need time alone with girl friends as I would believe they would too.
Someone who supports my dreams and will compromise if they disagree.
Someone who is pretty calm in conversations or when angry.
Someone who doesn't mind going on walks in the park, beach, or going to museums.
Someone who understands I have many things to take care of along with a relationship and will forgive me for being pushy, uncaring, or irritable and try to help me in anyway possible as I tend to be all 3 every so often even if I don't notice it and really don't mean to be.
And of course, someone who shares my love of disney or at least is OK with it.

 

[jemberly_ann]

someone who will hang out with me proudly
who has a great sense of humor
who likes the same kind of stuff i do
who has a great personality
who is in a sport
who loves that sport so much as to ask me to go practice instead of a movie.
who isnt going to take it too fast
who will be there to support me
who isnt going to dump me after 2 weeks

theres more, but whatever

 

[marypops!]

I actually never give it much though

I don't really mind how they look but i'd like someone who is rather smart, likes all the things I do, has a good sense of humour, doesn't complain about how they look too much, doesn't spend alot of money on things they'll probably only use once, saves money and likes Disney as much as I do.

 

[♥DizzyDizney♥]

Someone who has humor.
Someone who can be mature with my parents.
Someone who can protect me.
Someone who teases me.
Someone who is athletic.
Someone who actually likes me for my personality, and they don't care about my looks. ( Except when he compliments me )
Someone who is romantic.
Someone who doesn't spend a lot of money for me.
Someone who only pays attention to me, and doesn't flirt with other girls.
Someone who is confindent.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

Someone who is confident.
Someone who is respectful.
Someone who is sweet and caring.
Someone with a sense of humour.
Someone with a personality.
Someone who won't flirt with other girls when we date.
Someone who likes me for me.
Someone who get's decent grades.
Someone who enjoys Disney.
Someone who I can hold a conversation with.
Someone who is fun and doesn't mind staying in sometimes.
Someone who won't rush me into doing thing's I'm not ready for.
Someone who doesn't smoke,do drugs, or is a constant drinker.
Someone who won't choose video games over me.
Someone who is honest and trustworthy.
Someone who is responsible.
Someone with dark hair and tall.

 

[m-and-m]

-funny
-protective
-smart (not in a school way, but rather with life in general)
-caring
-cuddly
-dosen't care what everyone else thinks (my self-esteem is in the gutter, this helps me alot)
- he has to be into cars or Harleys
-flirty
-if someone says something about me i want him to either reassure me and shrug what they said off, or reassure me and then deck them
-easy to talk to
-talks alot (has to be able to keep up with me)
-semi-athletic
-mysterious eyes that only i can read
-doesn't care what i look like, just loves me for me
-plays rough with me but is gental at the same time
-is always there for me
-comforts me when i'm upset
-knows when i need a hug
-is very open with emotions
-never walks away from me when we're in a big group (seperation anxiety)
-kisses me not caring who is watching
-randomly does extra special things for me to brighten my day
-makes my life better (my life when i'm home isn't that great)

with my standards so high i'm amazed i found a guy that fits all of this

 

[BAMBIFOREVER]

funny
sweet
protective but not overly
sporty
loves disney
likes me for me
not a player
someone who i can count on
someone i can talk to
some one who will listen

my guy isnt perfect but still love him

 

[llama62]

Funny
Likes me for who I am, not who they think I am
Always willing to talk
Has mild interest in video games
Always willing to hug me and listen
Has to have decent grades
Has to be shorter than me (not very hard... Im 5'10")
Can't be shorter than like 5'2"
Someone who isn't perverted
Can play a musical instrument
Always wants to see me
Will hug me and hold
Someone who isn't emo or goth
Can mesmerize me with either their eyes or smile, not their body

 

[HDD]

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