Question for the guys...and the girls.

[BabyPiglet]

Funny
Likes me for who I am, not who they think I am
Always willing to talk
Has mild interest in video games
Always willing to hug me and listen
Has to have decent grades
Has to be shorter than me (not very hard... Im 5'10")
Can't be shorter than like 5'2"
Someone who isn't perverted
Can play a musical instrument
Always wants to see me

Always wants to see me

I agree. I guess I'm weird but I kinda like a clingy person.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Someone who makes me happy. I've struggled in the past with being happy, and I need someone who can help me try to be cheerful when things aren't great. Someone who is there for me.

They have to be able to make me laugh, I prefer witty and light humor. I am NOT into gross humor or racist humor.

Someone who truly enjoys who I am. Who gets the random crap that comes out of my mouth and is willing to make up farfetched stories with me.
But at the same time, I want someone I can REALLY talk to, the way I can talk to my best friend. About serious things, and takes my opinion seriously.

Someone who isn't overly friendly, I'm not big on guys who just kind of only hang out with people because they seem entertaining at the moment. They'll hang out with whoever, but it doesn't matter to them who it is. I like quieter guys with a good group of friends.

Someone who absolutlely makes my heart melt, either by what the say, or what they do.

 

[DramaQueen]

Sooo...I'll basically just be describing my BF here
but he really does have most, if not all of the qualities that i look for

Can handle me
(which is a big one...he has to know how to deal with me when i'm crying---which is more often than not. he has to know how to handle me when i get angry or upset or sad. he has to understand and accept that i'm slighty crazier than the next girl)

Willing to talk things out
(when we get into arguements, rather than hang up on each other, or stay angry and just boil over with anger, I need someone who can talk things out--rationally!)

Good Looking.

Understands/shares my sense of humour
(dry, sarcastic, sometimes vulgar humour.)

Not afraid to be himself in front of me
(I know my BF sometimes puts on a front infront of his friends, but when it's just he & I, I know he can just relax and be his true self)

Loves Vietnamese food
(considering I eat there weekly....and luckily Derek shares my love and we eat in/take out aaaall the time. I could NOT handle a BF that didn't like vietnamese food. I NEED IT)

CARES ABOUT ME & worries about me
(makes me feel loved when he gets worried about me)

Confident, Honest, Trustworthy, Open, Cuddly etc.

FOrgiving of my faults
(i know i can be bossy or pushy or selfish sometimes, but I'm lucky & happy that he understands that is just how I am sometimes and knows not to take it seriously. That is definitley important!)

Gets along with my family!

 

[CrazyChik]

Can't be shorter than like 5'2"

What may i ask is wrong with being shorter than 5'2"?

Ok:
Has to tolerate a great deal of sarcasm (and also has to distinguish it from non-sarcasm as apparently that's hard to do with me)
Has to love/like/tolerate my enthuiasm for horses.
Has to be somewhat clever (i don't want a genius but i don't want an idiot.)
Has to have a good sense of humour.
Has to like me for me.
Has to be forgiving and has to handle me.
Has to be snuggable.

 

[Danny12]

- sensitive
- affectionate
- sweet
- caring
- funny
- smart
- respectful
- not afraid to be himself
- cute

 

[ohdisco]

I don't want someone who's perfect.
I want someone with flaws.

They have to have a sense of humor. I'm not really into gross humor, but I get every other kind of humor. I'm all for awkward people, so even awkward humor makes me laugh.
They have to be open about music, even when I'm not completely open.
They have to be able to stay in for the night, just watching movies, but also be able to do dorky date things (like mini golf).
They have to proudly walk beside me as I dance around (which I do very, very, very frequently).
They have to be ok that I have crushes on celebrities all the time, and I get really into my celebrity crushes, haha.
If I break up with Eric, the next person HAS to have their driver's license and a car. I'm tired of being a chauffeur. I want to be able to sit in the passenger's seat without having a heart attack.
They have to love disney, or at least be ok that I love disney.
They have to do duets with me when I burst into songs they know (which I also do very frequently).
They have to respect my mother, and the responsibility I feel toward making sure she's alright. They have to respect the rest of my family as well, but mostly my mom.
They have to be able to handle how completely girly and romantic I am. I love to be hugged and cuddled. I get jealous, but in a cute way. I love getting random cute little gifts, like flowers and candy on days that aren't special. I cry during movies, and I need to be snuggled against. No, I will NOT just ignore the spider...you've gotta get up and kill it with your big shoe. It has to be ok that we go to the mall every once and a while, and you unfortunately have to carry the bags (but it's ok if you whine about it). If it's really cold out and I forgot a jacket, you gotta give up your jacket.
BIG THING: HE CANNOT SMELL. He has to smell GOOD. I have a very sensitive nose, and I will smell you and not be attracted to you if you smell.

He can get jealous, cause I'm extremely loyal when I'm being treated correctly (aka, not being picked on and ignored, made drive around all over the place, and being told I'm wrong about how I FEEL).
He can be stupid sometimes, cause it'll make me laugh.
He can be overprotective.
He can be clingy.
He can have boys night.

If we're talking about wishful thinking for looks:
Dark hair.
Dark eyes.
Very tall.
Scrawny to thinish.
Big, strong hands.

Pluses:
musician (piano is the best, but anything classical or modern would be ok).
same taste in music.
cute fashion sense.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

Someone who makes me happy. I've struggled in the past with being happy, and I need someone who can help me try to be cheerful when things aren't great. Someone who is there for me.

They have to be able to make me laugh, I prefer witty and light humor. I am NOT into gross humor or racist humor.

Someone who truly enjoys who I am. Who gets the random crap that comes out of my mouth and is willing to make up farfetched stories with me.
But at the same time, I want someone I can REALLY talk to, the way I can talk to my best friend. About serious things, and takes my opinion seriously.

Someone who isn't overly friendly, I'm not big on guys who just kind of only hang out with people because they seem entertaining at the moment. They'll hang out with whoever, but it doesn't matter to them who it is. I like quieter guys with a good group of friends.

Someone who absolutlely makes my heart melt, either by what the say, or what they do.

Exactly.

Someone I can talk to for hours and never run out of things to stay.

Someone who I'd look foward to rolling out of bed at 7 am just so I can see him at school.

Someone I'd spend more time laughing with than crying over.

Someone who would still give me butterflies, no matter how long we'd been together.

Someone who would say, "Wow, you look BEAUTIFUL," if I'm in a ball gown or a pair of sweats.

Someone that I'd feel completely free to be myself around.

Someone who'd know all my quirks and love me more for them.

Someone who'd let me cry on their shoulder, and who I'd feel comfortable enough with to show my vulnerable side to.

Someone who only had eyes for me :]

 

[MrsSparrow..]

Someone who gets me, accepts me, understands me and most importantly someone to accompany me on my crazy dreams, which I will achieve.

-Ashleigh

 

[BabyPiglet]

Definitely has to be okay with me hugging and snuggling with them all the time.

 

[Loves Disney]

Do not give up on me so easily.

Laugh.

I cannot handle too much drama. Just live life and enjoy what you've got. Don't go crying and whinning about pointless stuff. However, a little sensitivity never hurt. Most girls crave for very sensitive guys, but honestly, I just want someone who is only moderately such. I'm not a dramatic person and would prefer to keep as much of that out of my life haha.

Chivalry. I am old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I won't ask for it, but things such as opening a door for me, pulling out a chair for me, and those sort of things really catch my attention. Do that a few times and I might get attached lol.

Communicate. I'm a blunt person. I will say things as I see 'em so do the same with me. Obviously know boundries and what is going too far. But if a dress makes me look fat, tell me! I will change. I don't get offended much at all (seriously). I'd perfer honestly as it would save me public humiliation more times than not. If my make-up makes me look ugly as heck, tell me! I will wipe it off. If something I am doing annoys you, TELL ME!! Communication is key. Don't assume I am a mind-reader. Because I don't have that ability haha.

Don't be crude. Sexual innuendos do not impress me. Save it for the guys. lol.

Be yourself. Don't put on an act for me. Things like this never work because an act can only take you so far before you burst...then, suddendly, I'm with someone who I don't know. Just be you!

 

[tinkerbell12]

Someone I can be myself around and not feel like an idiot.
Someone who'll be there for me and won't laugh at my 'blonde moments' but has a sense of humor.
Someone who'll stick up for me.
Someone who doesn't care what I look like.

I'm not too picky, but I'd love if they had the added bonus of:

Nice hair
Sweet smile
Is sarcastic
Wears deodorant
Loves Disney.

 

[Sparx]

something else i need:
a series of rough breakups and all around bad relationships have made me an incredibly clingy person. i don't always need you, but when i need you, i need you.

i need someone that i won't drive away.

 

[OneTreeHill]

Someone who wants me and only me.
Someone who likes my friends.
Someone who is protective, yet not controlling.
Someone who won't push me to do things I'm not ready to do.
Someone who is loving and sweet.
Someone who is totally random.
Someone who is okay with the things I love. (ie: RENT, twilight, Bat Boy etc)
Someone who loves me for me, and doesn't want me to change.
Someone who lets me be myself.
Someone who doesn't care if I am wearing sweats.
Someone who has a great personality.
Someone who would get all dressed up with me and go to a fast food joint.
Someone who would be okay just hanging out.
Someone who can tell me the honest truth, no matter what.
Someone who laughs at me, and lets me laugh at him.
Someone who would always be there when I need him.
Someone who is respectful.
Someone who is sarcastic.
Someone who is funny.
Someone who gets jealous, but totally trusts me.
Someone who I can trust 100%.

 

[CrazyChik]

Someone I can be myself around and not feel like an idiot.
Someone who'll be there for me and won't laugh at my 'blonde moments' but has a sense of humor.
Someone who'll stick up for me.
Someone who doesn't care what I look like.

I'm not too picky, but I'd love if they had the added bonus of:

Nice hair
Sweet smile
Is sarcastic
Wears deodorant
Loves Disney.

No need to describe me.
xD

 

[BabyPiglet]

something else i need:
a series of rough breakups and all around bad relationships have made me an incredibly clingy person. i don't always need you, but when i need you, i need you.

i need someone that i won't drive away.

I agree, I'm sorta clingy as well.

 

[llama62]

What may i ask is wrong with being shorter than 5'2"?

Nothing. Didn't mean to offend anyone, but Im 5'10" and i dont want to have to look down that far on my girlfriend

 

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

Okay, I have to get this out of the way--

good hair. That's the FIRST thing I notice about a guy. I love the emo-hair xD

But after that, I want someone who's--

Caring
Sensitive
Funny
Not obsessed with sports... I don't like it when a guy's life is ruled by sports.
Musical!! I'm a sucker for musicians.
Artistic
Intelligent
Tall.. heh.
Open-minded.
Respectful

And it'd be nice if there was a guy that liked ME, and thought I was beautiful. And if he reminded me of it, because I need someone telling it to me or else I don't think I am.

 

[llama62]

Oh I must add to mine.

Must be tolerant of my NASCAR obsession

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Oo.
Willing to give me huggies (*cough cough*)

 

[Ampris]

My ideal SO? Hmm. I'd say, someone who...

- I can communicate with. This is the most important thing; if nothing else, I'd want somebody I can listen and talk to constantly, who'll want to say what they think and feel and cares about what *I* think and feel. Ideally, somebody who's on the same wavelength as me, but any sort of understanding between us would be lovely. (And hopefully I'm not just shooting for the moon here.)
- Is empathetic. (In general, that is; not just to me.)
- Has at at least some common interests with me. Doesn't matter which ones or how many, just something we could enjoy together; though it would still be great to be able to introduce and be introduced to new things by them.
- Is open-minded and fair, and looks at things in a balanced way, without thinking in extremes all the time. Not a bigot.
- Is emotional and has no problem expressing it. Being emotionally detached is huge, huge, put-off.
- Not a super-rigid thinker; doesn't mind wandering off on a totally different tangent and considering things in a new way. Gets excited over little things that intrigue them. :
- Loves life and doesn't mind feeling and acting happy, even for some silly reason.

Yay for bullet lists.