It's amazing what different answers you get each time you talk to a CM. One say "yes you can share at non-buffet restaurants" another says "no, you can't share on the dining plan".
Yesterday, I was told that I can share DH's meals at ala carte (ie not all you can eat) restaurants unless you had a special dinner plan like with the Fantasmic or CP.
I think everyone has had good suggestions so far. One thing I am doing is arranging my credits using the excel file someone provided using the 2 scenarios....one, being with sharing, one being without. That way, I can cancel any TS meals easily after we get there if they don't allow us to share.
I have been married and sharing my husband's meals for 21 years now and I don't EVER have a problem at any local restaurant or while I am travelling, with any restaurant saying we can't share. I eat very little and by sharing my husband gets to get dessert without being stuffed.
I don't think Disney restaurants will have a problem with your sharing a meal at the ala carte restaurants. I always tip as if I ate a full-priced meal and we usually inform the server that they will be given this extra. We've even had servers provide extra service (ie like giving free non-alcoholic beverages) and then we tip accordingly too. Usually, servers try to accommodate people.
If you are stressing about TS credits, sit down with 2 versions of the MYM dining planner. Plug in the meals you absolutely have to have then fill in with your remaining TS credits. Star or note the ones that will need cancelling should you find that they won't allow sharing. I think you would feel better having a back-up plan.
GOOD LUCK!
