Actually, because some people had expressed concern about not being out, the group is set to "secret", so nobody who isn't *in* the group can find it, or see members or posts-you have to be added by a member (which is great for member privacy & safety, but not so great for those who want to join). I'll send you a DM
I actually can't send you a DM just yet. You need 10 posts to get access to the messaging system. You're welcome to temporarily post your fb profile link here & then delete it after I get in touch with you, but if you'd rather wait to use the system on here, that's fine, too