Good morning!

(I started this earlier but got distracted!)
I hope those celebrating had a nice Mother’s Day! Had a nice one here, and a first in a long time was to have young children here to celebrate with. DS is dating a woman with children! It was fun watching him interact with them and doing a nice job, including having great patience! The card he gave me made me tear up a bit. It played Somewhere Over the Rainbow, Hawaiian version, and he wrote, “Thank you for everything you’ve done for me”. I know that’s kind of cliche, but in his case, as many of you know, he’s had several crossroads in the past few years with work (and a relationship), and I’ve thankfully been able to help him work through a lot of that, and he appreciates it. I feel like he’s moving toward living with this new family of his, he’s there most of the time now. So that was sweet. The younger child is pretty attached already.
DS is flying today. Winter/spring was tough weather-wise, he had seven cancellations because of it. But he’s almost to the end. Today he’ll be flying in and out of the airport we always fly to FL from, so he’s very excited about that!
We were going to do steaks on the grill but since there were going to be kids we decided to go with burgers, dogs, corn on the cob, Nathan’s fries

and DH made me a lemon-blueberry Bundt cake. They brought fruit and the kids ate that and a good sampling of other things which was nice. We played games in the yard, including waffle ball, and blew bubbles. They brought their puppy who gets along well with our two. So nice day. Kids are looking forward to going in the pool this summer once it’s officially open.
We have been busy around the house and I think it’s looking good. We painted it and cleaned up some things around the yard. I’m happy with the color of the house. We were debating about the shutters, which we always had, but I kind of like it without. We’ve been looking around our area and many who’ve painted have left them off. So we’ll see. (I think they’re staying off.) DH and I have been getting our financial house in order, too, as he, especially, would like to retire in the next year or two. We have a long list of to-dos with that, including updating our wills and putting a file together for if something happens to us. Work in progress. Have started some work on the in-law apt, where DD will move in. Our vacation next month will be spent either getting a dumpster or truck to get rid of a lot over there. That will be tough but it has to be done.
DD is doing well. She took up crocheting after she finished her master’s, I think she just needed to reset her brain with something quiet and easy. She’s applied for a new job, and is waiting to hear. And she’s in a good relationship. It’s nice to see her happy.
I really should’ve kept notes as i was reading here, cause now I forget what I was going to say!
Lynn, sorry to hear about your cat’s passing.

Good review on Chewy. I don’t, surprisingly, use their services. Mostly I order from
Amazon and we get dog supplies locally. They love the Aldi’s salmon canned food, but not the dry as much, so we’ll be going back to their old dry food and maybe donating the big bag we bought recently. Toto will be 11 this year. He’s slowing down a bit but is still as sweet as ever. I’ve devoted quite a bit of time and energy to his skin and it’s all recovered except one of his lips, which we’re still working on. Grady is doing really well, he looks great, coat is very shiny and he’s strong. We took him for a DIY bath recently and he did a great job. He was a little nervous with the commotion yesterday, DS hit him with a waffle ball by accident and he didn’t know what happened, and a little fearful, so he rested up on our bed but was still able to hear all that was going on. We’ve found with him, baby steps work best. Btw Lynn, your house sounds great and it’s so nice that Summer came by over the weekend and they brought you some gifts.
Mona, I hope you had a nice birthday, and that your foot/feet is feeling better. I was actually thinking about you last week when my patient had one of those boots on!

The question came up of whether she needed to keep it on for sleep so I called over to orthopedics and they said no, she could take it off in bed, it’s just for weight bearing. It was, indeed, heavy and tricky to get on and off. She had slept with it one night but was relieved to hear she could take it off after that. (And with diabetes, they said, it’s especially important to get it off for circulation and pain/neuropathy issues.) I hope you can find a PT to come to the apt. Hello to Dad! And I hope you can get out soon, especially for your Disney trip.
Snowysmom, wishing you a wonderful trip!

I’m glad things are improving at the condo. Funny about your old neighbor! We were invited to go to WDW in the fall w friends who have DVC. All we’d need is airfare and we already have tickets leftover. But we decided we really want to keep going w the house w our fall vacation so we’ll be in a good place for retirement. It was tempting, though! We enjoyed being at Vero Beach last winter so we might keep an eye toward that again. Not sure if DS will be playing ball down there again while he’s in flight school but we’ll see.
Wishing all the Quackers well, both new and old.
@Donald we have a lot in common. People here know my mom lived with us for 25 yrs and we took care of her through hospice at home, where she passed at 94. I agree, it was a privelege to do that for her. We had a give and take relationship forever. I was missing her yesterday. DD and I are nurses so that made it a little easier, I think, but physically and emotionally it was still really hard work. Bless you all.
Enjoy this beautiful Monday!
