It looks like it's sleeting outside here now. The roads are only wet, but that will freeze over later. We were all awakened at 5:30 this morning to the town public schools calling (and texting, and emailing) that the schools were going to do an early release today. That doesn't really affect us, as Josh does his remote learning today and tomorrow, so he's already home. All it meant for us is that his last 2 scheduled meetings were cancelled. But tonight is his gymnastics class - the last one of session 3 - and they haven't posted on FB, so we assume they're going to have class.
We don't observe Lent. Growing up, my family wasn't religious and I had never even heard of Lent until I was almost out of elementary school. Is it really bad that I like this time, though, simply because it means the grocery stores have great sales on fish (I LOVE fish, but it's so expensive!)

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So my MIL told DH and my SIL that she wanted to have last night (Wednesday) to herself, she didn't want anyone sleeping over. DH did stop over after work, as he works only about 10 minutes away, and they had dinner and watched Jeopardy, but then he came home. It's probably good for her to spend longer stretches of time by herself, to get used to being alone. I am worried about her with the wintery weather, but she won't go anywhere anyway. DH said she seems to be doing well, and he, his brother, and sister all think she will do fine in the end.
My mom talked to my uncle yesterday and he seems to be okay as well. He will be moving in with another of my uncles and it looks like they will live out their lives together. I'm not sure what to make of that...you'd have to know my crazy family, but all I can say is that this is going to be VERY interesting!
My blood pressure has come down a bit. I've had several readings in the past few days in the 130s or no higher than 141, over 80s. Yes, that is still elevated, but not nearly as bad as it was. I think the Wellbutrin started working yesterday as well. The doctor had said it would give me energy, and I couldn't sit still yesterday. Today I did 2 25-minute walking tours of Madame Tussaud's museums on YouTube. I'm enjoying using those to walk (walk in place - and I do some extra things as well). So I'm still not sitting around.
I'm sorry about your aunt's death.
I wanted to address your blood pressure issues. I was having insane bp readings for probably a year or more leading up to finally having my hysterectomy and for several months afterwards. Apparently my body was making and pumping so much blood because of the monthly cycle but more because of the tumors and everything growing and needing "life" from blood that it was causing my bp problems. About 6 months after my hysterectomy my bp started to slowly go down and now I'm at 108/70 or so. Just a thought about what's going on but I imagine if you are having anxiety issues you are going to have bp issues and worrying about your bp when taking it doesn't help. Also make sure you are getting all your hormones to include your thyroid checked.
This makes a LOT of sense! My mother - who was a medical assistant until a few years ago, and who has a lot of medical background along with that - did some researching and everything we found says that there is a strong link between cysts/fibroids and high blood pressure. So she wants me to not worry so much about it, and hopefully I can have surgery to remove "those things." I'm surprised, though, that the doctor seemed to disregard that. I've got 5 things growing in there and it sounds like one of them is rather large (I could even feel it while lying on the floor and doing yoga the other day). I'm going to mention it to my gyn when I have my biopsy next week. Thank you, I never would have thought of that!