prom.

[LittleTink09]

The gf of 2 years is going to prom tomorrow night... ((she's a senior and im a junior)) I dont exactly like the idea of a guy being close to her getting their pic taken and dancinggg I don't think I really have anything to be worried about because they have been friends for years and she tells me she's like 100% for sure gay. She doesn't even really want to go (..she doesn't get dressed up and never takes off her hat<3) But it sucks. There's no other way to explain how i feel. It just sucks.


And then she's leaving for senior trip for a week in one month with about 15 girls... i know they are all her best friends but again... it sucks.


I'm scared of all the changes we're going to be going through, too.


I've had a really bad week bc of these things, and needed to vent for a minute.. sorry. and thanks.

 

[rosiep]

This is were trust comes in. I know it's hard not to be joining your GF on her big day. I always try to do the role reversal thing when facing something hard with my partner...what if it were your prom and you were going with a friend? You'd want your partner to feel secure and happy for you.

A one month seperation is a long time . Come play on the boards more, write your honey and save the letters for her (or send them) be curious...not afraid.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

First, may I say that you two make an ah-dorable couple!!

Second, I agree with Rosie. Love letters are oh-so-romantic, and cool to save and look at when you're older!

 

[zulemara]

yes, very adorable!

I didn't go to prom because I went to a Catholic high school, I wasn't out, and even if I was, same sex couples were not allowed. I didn't go as a protest and I don't regret it one bit.

As far as the trust, it is one of the most important things in a relationship. Don't be afraid of the changes and challenges you face. You will go through so many different levels of love you never realized existed. DBF was gone for 3 months marching drum and bugle corps with hot, tan, skinny gay boys. We will be apart much longer in January and I am not worried because we love eachother so much and want the others happiness so much, that if either of us fell for another guy, we would be honest and tell the other person. I love him so much that if another guy honestly made him happier, I would let him go if it's truly what he wanted.

Don't live your life being afraid of what could happen. If it's meant to be, it will all work out. That philosophy has never failed me

 

[PghLybrt]

Littletink...I am so off topic with this but thought i would throw this out there.

The Clicks are playing pride on June 22 and its all ages. I know n Pgh there is not always a lot to do if you are under 21 so I thought I would let you know.