Though it was made a point to say not all students are acting nor would act like it's a free for all party time, it's the "parents man up", "pull the purse strings" aspect that is pulling the comments. What do you want the parents to do kidnap their kids? What are you the parent going to do by threatening them--"I won't pay for your college anymore if you don't come with me now?"
It's one thing if the student has no real issue coming home or voluntarily says "I'm going to come home". Posters are just saying they would leave that decision to their student to make.
I get this. Our DD is 20. She’s quite capable of making her own decisions & has pretty good head on her shoulders. Our older DS 18. He’s... not quite as capable yet as his big sister. LOL! But he’s still pretty responsible.
However, I also get what the other PP is saying too.
A LOT of college students (a lot - not all!) aren’t taking COVID-19 seriously - just like they really don’t take other sickness seriously. Additionally, since they’re not in the target group for serious problems w/ the virus, it means even less to them.
MANY of the college students at my kids’ college were very upset that the college is going to online instruction. DD has a friend who was in tears that she was going to have be home for longer than just spring break. She was worried her parents were going to give her chores to do while she was at home. LOL!
(Also, too, some kids CANNOT go home.)
But college kids are not typically going to social distance themselves at all... which is fine, until one them gets sick... which is one reason sicknesses spread so easily on college campuses.
And, in this instance, they can also end up spreading the virus to others who ARE at risk.
All these schools & colleges are cancelling in-person classes... the only way this is going to work if people take it seriously & not use it as extra “get together” time, & I’m not just talking about the college kids, I’m talking about the elementary & high school kids too.