Private Place for Gay Couple to Kiss?

[Mugglemama]

The fact that you're even asking probably shows that you're the type to be respectful about it. That said...I hate watching people make out in line....gay, straight, or otherwise. I have 4 kids, but even if I didn't have them there with me, I don't want to watch other people making out (seriously, I'd rent a DVD at home if I was into watching other people...know what I'm saying? lol!).

Last time we were there, we were standing behind two women at the entrance to DCA who were getting a little more friendly than was necessary (one was rubbing the other one's rear end, etc.). But it would have been just as annoying had they been a straight couple.

DLR hosts tens of thousands of people every single day...so, unless you happen to miraculously show up on a day when there are very few people there, you're not going to have any privacy within the parks. Most people are pretty caught up in their own thing, though...so if it's not much more than hand-holding - meaning, not stuff that *draws* attention - I doubt many people are really even going to notice.

Re: the PP who said something about breaking people out of their shells or whatever - I wouldn't recommend it. People go to Disneyland for fun, not social or political enlightenment. Purposely making out there in front of a bunch of people solely to prove a point would be just as annoying as, say, me...standing in line trying to convert everyone around me to Christianity and homeschooling. Know what I mean?

I hope your Disneyland day is a good one!

 

[Sacha_L]

While I don't want to push anyone to do something that makes them uncomfortable, I'd like to point something out. Yes, there may be people who are uncomfortable with it. But there are also parents out there teaching their children that good people are good people and love is love, and that things like race and gender don't change that. And I imagine they'd be quite happy for their kids to see a nice, respectful couple exemplifying that.

You know what they say. Be the change you want to see. [/QUOTE]

What this poster said. I've already answered questions my two boys have-I keep it strait forward. Im teaching my boys to be the change I want to see in the world.

 

[Mama Who]

My boyfriend and I are going to Disneyland sometime in the future (near future, I hope), and we want to know where appropriate places to hold hand and stuff are. It's a family environment and many people don't think of gay couples as "family friendly". We don't have to experience weird looks or bigotry from other guests, so we want a private place to show affection. And nothing more than hand holding and maybe a kiss or two. Anything more than that belongs at the hotel. I've been to Disneyland 5 times before, but I can't recall any private places. Besides on rides like Peter Pan, the most private I can think of is Snow White's Wishing Well but even that gets frequent visitors. Any help?

No place in Disneyland is truly private. Anywhere that it is appropriate for Papa Who and I to kiss, it is appropriate for you and your partner to do so. I know it must be hard to deal with bigotry, but please, don't let someone else's hang up prevent you from expressing love in an appropriate manner in a public place.

 

[Airb330]

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Re: the PP who said something about breaking people out of their shells or whatever - I wouldn't recommend it. People go to Disneyland for fun, not social or political enlightenment. Purposely making out there in front of a bunch of people solely to prove a point would be just as annoying as, say, me...standing in line trying to convert everyone around me to Christianity and homeschooling. Know what I mean?

I hope your Disneyland day is a good one!

I didn't take that post as you did. Maybe I just read it differently. I don't think they meant for people to purposely make others uncomfortable for a statement with the 'break out of the shell' comment. I agree with you, I wouldn't wear an old Kerry 2004 T-shirt, just as I wouldn't want to see a Romney 2012 t-shirt. Etc.

 

[tdhickey]

Sunset, Carsland, outside of Flos by the race track. Not private, but not crowded either. Ferris wheel is the most private...that's where you can do the heavier, but still appropriate stuff

Never seen anyone bothered in DLR by gay men and females so don't worry about it. There is also Gay Days in October if you are into joining a very large group of gay individuals and supporters.

 

[tdhickey]

My boyfriend and I are going to Disneyland sometime in the future (near future, I hope), and we want to know where appropriate places to hold hand and stuff are.

Holding hands and stuff, you can do that anywhere man! See it all the time, no one bats an eye at it anymore there (yay progress), DLR is great for this.

 

[Greg K.]

...that this seems to be a non-issue for DL-ers. I'm not sure that would be the case at WDW, which tends to attract more people from the Bible Belt and "red states."

I suspect a fair number of people going to WDW have never seen same-sex couples holding hands in real life. And, too, you get a lot of people visiting Orlando from other countries and cultures, where the attitudes may be markedly different.

If you visit any of the WDW forums on these pages, you often encounter questions (especially around this time of year) regarding the "Gay Days" at Disney World, and parents wondering what they can do or how they should deal with them.

Further evidence that it's a big country. And Disney manages to appeal to everyone.

 

[MICKEYFIL]

If you visit any of the WDW forums on these pages, you often encounter questions (especially around this time of year) regarding the "Gay Days" at Disney World, and parents wondering what they can do or how they should deal with them.

It is funny you say this. I find when most people, including myself, ask about Gay Days they are only concerned with crowd sizes.

 

[Aladora]

Vancouver Island here! (waving from the other side of the Ferries!)

I agree with just about everything posted here, if you want to hold your bf's hand then hold it! If you want to kiss him, just do it. As long as you are comfortable and it's not getting into more than PG13 level, who cares?

But, if you want a quiet place to sit and chill out with very few people, try the movie theatre on Main St. We take our DS there when he starts to get overwhelmed and rarely have we seen even one other person there.

Enjoy your trip!

(And if you haven't already done so, remember to vote tomorrow!)

 

[tdhickey]

It is funny you say this. I find when most people, including myself, ask about Gay Days they are only concerned with crowd sizes.

Yeah, the crowd level is insane. It is a fun weekend, but insane!

 

[CourtFool]

It really warms my heart to see these responses. I am sorry you do not enjoy the same freedoms that others do. Love is never wrong.

 

[DarthMole]

You don't need strangers telling you what and where you can/can't do things. Just act like any other mature couple in the park.

Comments about teens or the rare adults making out do not apply since that is not a sign of maturity.

 

[bumbershoot]

Yeah, the crowd level is insane. It is a fun weekend, but insane!

Doesn't help when it's held over Columbus Day weekend, which does happen to bring in the crowds at DLR. Last year there were far more people (going by the makeup of their groups here) there just for the holiday than for Gay Days!

 

[mommy2allyandaveri]

Who cares what people think! I kiss my husband in lines (not making out or anything). There is NO reason why you shouldn't be able to do the same.

If you are really worried about it, you could always go during Gay Days. It's in October. If you went during that time you would certainly see other people of the same gender holding hands and what not. Would that help you feel more comfortable?

 

[Autty40]

I just want to agree with all the previous posts! I think as long as it's PG anyone can show affection. My hubby and I always stay PG cause that's what makes us comfortable. Just do what you're used to doing.

 

[beachdreamr1229]

Do what you want as long as it's PG. Disneyland is very gay-friendly. My moms hold hands and kiss and everything there and no one has ever been rude enough to say something about it. There will always be one or two exceptions perhaps, but I'd like to think visitors have more important things to do that judge others.

 

[fctiger]

Well everyone has said it but yeah I dont think its a big deal there is PDA anywhere, gay or straight, just dont be a horny teenager about it lol. I was at DLR just yesterday and saw a gay couple kissing near the castle near sundown and it was romantic. I think things like that is what makes DL special because it IS a romanatic place for couples and seeing people kiss in places like the castle, PP at night, NOS, walking down MS, etc is expected IMO. And shows like the fireworks, Fantasmic, Christmas events, etc even brings it out more. So I think stuff like that is fine and actually looks very sweet. So just have a great time and just be reasonable in public thats all! This is still Disney, not Sixx Flaggs or my local Target!

Now if you guys just want to 'suck face' well thats the OTHER beauty about DL, lots of dark rides lol. Best places: The last rows of POTC and IASW. Long and slow! Other great places: HM (definitely), last row of FL rides and MI (at least a few quick kisses), back row of 3D movies and the Ferris Wheel IF you can get it alone. I THOUGHT TLM would be another great place but they made the cars WAAAAY too close so do dont feel as private. I made out at a few of these places with a girlfriend or two in various Disney parsk!

 

[Mugglemama]

Best places: The last rows of POTC and IASW. Long and slow!

Okay seriously?...anybody who feels inspired to make out while listening to the IASW song has *issues*....lol!!!

 

[fctiger]

Okay seriously?...anybody who feels inspired to make out while listening to the IASW song has *issues*....lol!!!

LOL, true, but it has been done! This was in Tokyo though with yours truly and a girlfriend at the time. Does make you feel a bit weird though with all the dolls looking at you!

 

[DharmaLou]

One of the most heartwarming moments on our trip last fall was a same-sex couple holding hands and one resting her head on the other's shoulder while standing inside Sleeping Beauty's castle listening to When You Wish Upon a Star. It actually made me tear up.

I hope you have a wonderful trip!