I think thats a bit of a stretch. I don't think the ratio is anywhere near 1:1 on how much planning is
almost required now.
I'm a planner too and I really do enjoy planning our trips but there is a line somewhere and although I'm not sure I know where it's at but I know that ordering my food in advance (without knowing how I will be feeling that day, how hungry I will be, what I will be in the mood for, what else I may pass that I may want, etc) is over the line. Yes, I know you can make changes but I do alot of planning up front so we do everything we can to leave our our phones in our bags while in the park. I research the most recommended parks, we take mid day breaks, we rope drop, we hit parks with PM EMH when available we FP+ the highest priority rides at the most opportune times so when I am there I can enjoy my family and the experience, not go back to my phone and change my plans I was "strongly encouraged" to start making 7+ months ago.
People love BOG and some people are willing to jump through the hoops for the theme, I certainly am not and by the looks of how many people actually pre-order vs not pre-ordering I don't think most people do either.
We all have different lines...but mine is somewhere between this nonesense below (that I do for every single trip) and pre-ordering the food I want to eat.