I've never been through it but a family member has.
Trisomy 18 is (almost universally) fatal within a few days of birth, if not before. With that in mind, would amnio change your mind? What I mean is, would knowing the results change anything YOU would do about the pregnancy?
Would you terminate?
Would you carry to term?
IF you carried to term, would the results make any difference in your birth plan or how your doctors would treat you? (Induction, C-section, etc).
Amnios done by an experienced doctor are low risk- less that 1:1000 rather than the 1:200 that is commonly quoted. However, I'm going to give you the same advice I gave my cousin-
If you would terminate, have the amnio. You are pushing the limits of when it is safe to terminate, when you add in time for the testing and results you will be very close to 24 weeks.
If you would not terminate but you want to know if your child will die soon before or after birth, have the amnio later in your pregnancy- after 30 weeks would be best. That way if the amnio does cause premature labor, the baby has a greater chance of surviving. In addition, let me recommend you have a level 2-3 ultrasound done by a highly experienced MFM specialist. There are physical characteristics for Trisomy 18 that can show up on ultrasound. Then you will have more info to decide.
If you don't want to know either way, don't have the amnio.
Either way, more

for you.