Prayers Needed And Warning

[marlasmom]

I need prayer and lots of them.

Turns out DH has a bad chamber in his heart. On Friday they are going to do a dangerous test called a cardiac catherization and may do an angioplasty or another procedure at the same time. If it turns out that he needs a by-pass they will do that at another time. I asked if it could wait until my kids leave - they are coming January 9 to run the Disney marathon and doc said no. It has already been 2 weeks since he told DH he needed it, but imbecile in his office screwed up. I mentioned to doc that I am a paralegal and he got very defensive and said I could sue him for his office screwup. So hopefully they will be supercareful

I HATE THE MEDICAL CARE DOWN HERE - A SERIOUS WARNING TO ALL. I have had problems with EVERY DOCTOR.

 

[Talking Hands]

Sorry that you have had problems. I on the other hand have had some excellent doctors along with a few jerks. I have one of the top endocrinologists in town, my daughter has one of the top hand and arm surgeons in the nation here in Miami, and my GP is an osteopath from the old school. He actually calls me personally with test results and to check on me if he hasn't seen me recently.

Perhaps if you don't emphasize the fact you are a paralegal you wouldn't get so much resistance. You just put doctors on the defensive and they won't want to deal with you or your family. They don't trust anyone in the legal profession down here. Been burnt too many times.

 

[BWVDenise]

Cardiac cath is a very common procedure, however, I understand that you are very worried. My dad has heart issues and is in Hernando, Florida. I think he is happy with the care he has received there (though I don't know exactly where he goes). In fact, he just had his pacemaker replaced. If you would like me to find out what cardiology group he uses, send me a pm and I'll find out for you in case you want to look into switching after the cath. Best wishes to your dh, and think only positive thoughts.

 

[HoneyPooh]

I have many family members and friends who have had those procedures and they have done very well recuperating and no problems in surgery. I'll say a prayer for your DH that all goes well for him also.

 

[grinningghost]

So sorry to hear about this, he will be in my thoughts.

I had a bad experience with 2 different Florida hospitals on a WDW trip in 1990. I won't get into why I had to go there, but Humana Hospital in Kissimmee was like a house of horrors. I also ended up in Lee Memorial in Fort Myers which was a bit better. But I'm sure there are good ones too. It's unfortunate though, when you get the bad ones, because they tend to be really bad.

Good luck to you.

 

[minniepumpernickel]

Sorry to hear that, I hope that the test comes out okay!

Having Lived both in the north and south, I prefer the medical facilities in the north! (No offense to anyone)!

 

[luvmydogs]

My prayers are with you and your DH. My mom went thru' the EXACT procedures your dh will have a little over three years ago after a heart attack. During the angioplasty, they discovered her heart had such a low level of function that they ended up doing an immediate quadruple bypass--had my father sign consent forms, as they didn't feel they could waste any time by bringing her out of the anesthesia. Her heart is now in excellent shape (however the same cannot be said for her attitude--she is the ultimate martyr/victim ) I know none of this may make you feel better--it's different when it's your own loved one, and I know you don't necessarily trust his Drs. Please know that I'll be keeping you and your dh in my thoughts and prayers--I've been there, and I know how tough it is...

 

[DocRafiki]

Originally posted by marlasmom
I mentioned to doc that I am a paralegal and he got very defensive and said I could sue him for his office screwup. So hopefully they will be supercareful

GREAT idea to get on the bad side of the person who holds your husband's life in his hands. People hint at a lawsuit with me, and I send them out the door. They can start over with someone else. You should either kiss some major butt or find a new doctor, because I guarantee when those test results come in in the future, they will not go to the top of his "to call" pile. That's my warning. Flame shield <ON>.

 

[HauntedMansionGeek]

I'll keep your hubby (and you too) in my prayers. I'm sure it'll turn out ok....
my father had 3 or more of these proceedures over the years and the last one while he was quite ill from his cancer. It went fine, but he did bleed a bit more because of the meds he was on.

Good luck dealing with the doctors. I'm sure they're doing their best even thought it might not seem like it.

 

[Chattyaholic]

Prayers for your DH that all will turn out well.
I have to say, though, that doctors are not God. They are human and sometimes mistakes are made. It's unfortunate when it happens but it does happen. Doctors have to live with their mistakes and I'm sure it's very hard for them to deal with, knowing that something they did/didn't do may have caused more problems. I doubt that threatening a law suit will get your husband any better care than the doctor can already give.

 

[Toby'sFriend]

I'm sorry MM. I know it must be really scary to have your DH going through that.

I'll keep you in my thoughts.

 

[mad4themouse]

I'm saying prayers for your DH, his doctors and you.

Although a cardiac cath is a common procedure, there is nothing "common" about it to you. Sometimes medical professionals lose sight of this.

My DM has had two cardiac caths in the past 5 years. They also added "stints" to her arteries both times. She is doing well and had more energy after each procedure. I hope that your DH's experience is just as good.

 

[mus muris asinus]

Originally posted by DocRafiki
GREAT idea to get on the bad side of the person who holds your husband's life in his hands. People hint at a lawsuit with me, and I send them out the door. They can start over with someone else. You should either kiss some major butt or find a new doctor, because I guarantee when those test results come in in the future, they will not go to the top of his "to call" pile. That's my warning. Flame shield <ON>.

Must be a booming practice you've got there, turning away every upset, irrational patient.

 

[marlasmom]

THANKS GUYS. I DID NOT REPEAT NOT THREATEN A LAWSUIT. As I explained in my other post, I exploded when stupid office girl said well I talked to someone 'over there' to arrange it but I don't know who. That's when I said I was a paralegal and she should ALWAYS document to whom she spoke, date and time, and outcome. Makes sense to me.

 

[Serena]

I'm sorry too MM, you have my thoughts and prayers as well. It must be terribly scary going through all this.
But, you might want to take another look at Doc's post. She does have a personal standpoint on the recieving end of threats. It does no good whatsoever. The doctor won't do any better or any worse because of them, but it does reflect badly on you. If you have a problem with the staff, take it to them, and then if things don't get better, the person in charge.

Again, you and your dh have my thoughts and prayers and I hope things get better for you soon.

edited to add, I must have misunderstood your post too. Anyway, wishing you well.

 

[Beauty]

MM you and your DH as well as your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine the stress you must be going through right now and the worry! Just look to God!

My great aunt has had thie procedure done twice now and she has come through terrifically both times. Just giveing you some encouragement! Hang in there!

 

[m&m's mom]

First of all my DH went through this this summer. He had his after a major heart attack and it was still pretty routine. He was otherwise in extremely good health.
Second if the Dr. told your DH he needed this how could the office screw it up? Did you try to schedule and they refused? I know it is scary but it ultimately is the consumer's responsibility to get their needs met (i.g. the appt.). Also you can also change Dr's if you feel the need.
And lastly I am SURE it put them on the defensive to mention your profession. That is definitely the wrong foot to get off on.
I would not mention it again.

 

[C.Ann]

There's no such thing as a "simple" procedure or a "safe" surgery and considering your DH's age, I can see why you are so concerned.. You're very worried and you want your feelings validated - seems normal enough to me..

Do what you have to do to get your DH the care that he needs.. I would have lost my DH a year ago this past summer if I had "kept my mouth shut".. The medical profession is no different than any other - they make mistakes - and someone has to be there to catch the mistakes if they don't..

I'll be praying for your DH.. Will the kids be there with you?

 

[gina2000]

MM, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband at such a stressful time. These tests are important and serious and although doctors perform them routinely, they are still stressful occasions for all involved.

Take good care of yourself. Let us know how the situation proceeds, okay?

 

[helenabear]

Sorry to hear that you are going through all this... my prayer are with yoru DH and yourself.