Waterless stainless steel is the best, but at 2K for a small set, you're not likely to receive it as a wedding gift. It's a good investment though. My mom's set is over 40 years old and is in perfect condition.
I love my cast iron frying pans, and they are generations old. negative: The weight.
One medium sized frying pan with a metal handle is good for things you want to start on the stovetop and then bake --of course, cast iron is good for this too.
We have a couple pieces of Revere Ware that my husband had when we got married 20 years ago. One saucepan warped on the bottom, and the large frying pan is heading that way. It's a good value for the money, but not the best. Still, I can't complain, given that that saucepan served us well for about 18 years.
I bought a cheap Paula Dean saucepan at
Walmart, and I am disappointed. The red color has faded badly. As I said, it was awfully cheap, so I shouldn't be surprised.
I put everything in the dishwasher. It has a pots and pans cycle for a reason, and anything that is too fragile to hold up to normal washing just isn't something I want to use on a regular basis anyway.
Finally, except for the cast iron, which