Okay, so I think it sounds like I'm not going to get this type of portrait out of the C5060. I'd purchased the camera more for it's wide-angle capabilities for underwater photography, and I'm pleased with it for that, but most of what I shoot these days are my kids, and it's not serving me well for that. I don't really want to spend SLR amounts of money, but I like having some control (even full manual mode, although I could get by if it has at least aperture priority setting), and I like having a non-LCD viewfinder (my hands tend to shake). Stabilization would be nice, but I've gotten by without it in the past. Any suggestions?