Um...I guess I must be a popular person then. I've got the whole "million friends" thing happening for me. I split time with my friends. I hang out at about 5 or 6 different tables for lunch everyday. I'll eat with my closest friends, but then I go chat with other people that I know. I'm friends with goths, preps, nerds, drama nerds, band geeks, brains, punks, hicks, everybody, really. I actually went from talking with Scott (hardcore punk rocker) to discussing football with my friends on the team. I have a really, really good time with all of them, too. I'm just myself. I don't think I'm pretty (although my boyfriend thinks I am), I don't think I'm smart. I actually think I don't belong because I hop so much from group to group chatting. It's like I can't find this one place that I should be or that I should stay at. It doesn't exist for me. Most of my friends, don't get along with some of my other friends. Marion doesn't really like Molly, Karolina doesn't really like Sam, but I'm friends with all of them.
The only advice I can give you, OP, is to just be outgoing and be yourself. People either like you or they don't. There's no point in changing who you are just to "fit in" with the "in" crowd.