I think I posted this when I 1st signed on to introduce myself but I will tell you again don't start

at me..and ready some

this can be pretty long

I have a complex....

Ok here it goes.... I am a
mutt my mom is part chinese & Philippine and my dad is part Italian & Arabian... father works for an American base roads and highways but was assigned in the middle east in the 70'S.... at one point one of the neighbors who was 65 y/o at that time asked my hand to my father for marriage.... my parents panic and I was sent to San Diego,Ca.. due to culture shock.... never saw women in 2 piece prior to my move

and men half naked themselves... I ditch school.. to be at the beach... Grades was going downhill.. got shipped to Japan to be with my oldest brother who was in the Navy... really having a hard time learning Japanese since all youth life I was only speaking Arabic and 2 dialects of the Philippine. Finally my brother gave up and shipped me back to my Chinese grandmother in the Philippines and went to school till HS. Finished elementary and parents moved back to San Diego and I got shipped back to San Diego

parents wanted me to go for Med school and since it was to much money to do it locally I was given the choice to either go to London or back to the Philippine. I chose Asia.... ditched Med school and went in for an easier 4 yr degree.... finished college and moved back to SD.. found out that I was getting married... made an excuse to visit Fl before getting married... went to see Mickey and did not play back home/SD instead..

went to NJ

got a job in Pa and never left since... whew!!!!
next time I will tell you how I found the rest of my family again....