jacqueline702
Earning My Ears
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- Nov 5, 2014
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Was this during the first week of June? I ask only because I actually think you're referring to me. I hardly ever post but I really feel like I should respond. My two year old daughter is handicapped and in a wheelchair. It looks like a stroller because she's little - it is sometimes considered an adaptive stroller simply because she can't wheel it herself (she's too young and not able to). I had a very difficult time getting her down the elevator that day (a huge line and a lot of people were cutting in front) so my friend walked down and waited for me in the HA area.Not all CMs can be relied upon to resolve chair saving issues, I've found.
When my family and I were on the Fantasy in June, my dad had his scooter and we arrived at the recommended 30 min prior for seating assistance. Well, there we other HA people ahead of us, so a CM escorted us to the other side of the theatre for the HA seats. When we got there, a woman with a young child were sitting in the HA designated seats (clearly labeled, too). The CM looked uncomfortable and simply gestured to us like, "here ya go" and left. The woman declared she was saving the seats for her friend and her stroller was going to be parked in the wheelchair spot! I firmly said that those seats were for a handicapped person and the family but she didn't budge, just searched around for her alleged stroller-toting friend. The CM was long gone and I was frustrated at the time that she didn't handle the matter, especially when there were plenty of other seats in the area and a stroller shouldn't be allowed in the theatre to begin with! When the woman still wouldn't move, we put his scooter in the wheelchair spot (she didn't protest) and walked him down to better seats, anyway. At least he had the ability to do that, but what if he was completely immobile?
Just society in general has become very self-centered and inconsiderate. If a chair simply has a towel and no one is around, I move it. Aulani has the same problem.
I am so sorry that we caused an inconvenience for you and your dad. This is the first time I had travelled with my daughter's wheelchair and that was the only place I knew to sit. My friend knew how overwhelmed I was and was trying to help. I'll be sure to handle it differently next time. Take care.
