Police Report Question

[Callie]

Document EVERYTHING and present it to the police.

This person does NOT have the right to take away your sense of security. There are new 'cyber bullying' laws, and what this person is doing definitely sounds illegal. But whatever you do, don't react to HER. Don't talk to her, call her, text her, email her or react in any way...it will just fuel her fire. Ignore her if she tries to engage you in conversation. If a strange man contacts you and makes you feel uncomfortable, CALL THE POLICE and let them deal with him...and her.

A bully needs an 'active' victim and if you don't react she'll lose interest. Stay strong, sister...you do NOT have to let stupid people ruin your life.

Thank you. Thankfully i don't think she is getting the response she wants, so thats why she keeps doing it. She's already gotten her boyfriend that she "loves (he's 24, can't drive due to a DUI, and has a kid, a whole nother story) fired from our job since she had him text me. I just hope she realizes how stupid it is, and how i could really end up badly. I've asked all my sorority sisters (that she's never met), to delete her from their facebooks so theres less stalking there. Hope that wasn't over the top.

 

[manning]

The only way to solve this is to get her out of your life.

What to do? You are going to have to find out what legal steps you can take. To do otherwise is a waste of time.

Like it or not, I would go to a lawyer, discuss this and find out what you can do. It may cost you some money but I think you will be well relieved to get her out of your life.

What you have to get across to her is it is better for her to leave you alone and if she doesn't there will serious consequences on her part.