I have stayed twice in POR. Once in alligator Bayou and once in the mansion section.
The thing I like about POR is that you have a feeling that you have left orlando and are staying in a secluded beautiful resort.
Depending on the time of year the bus system changes. In value season you can get half-empty busses to any of the parks, even if they have come from POFQ.
At park closing most all the busses are full at most of the resorts.
POR is spread out, don't let people fool you. However, that is exactly why some people love it. The noise is at a minimal, the main pool attracts all the kids which you can't hear from the rooms. The food court is larger than POFQ, as is the general store.
One versus the other is hard because they are so different. Having said that my wife and I have walked the grounds of POFQ many times and are staying there in October. Our decision to stay at POFQ was based solely on the resort size and not the atmosphere, food court, bar, busses or store.