No, no thread-jacking at all

It's totally fine, and I'm happy my thread could provide grounds for a trade.
I was also gonna say I have an extra pink dress I would not mind giving to whoever's daughter needed it....I have a bit of cash saved up to buy the halloween stuff, so I can buy another dress when it comes out, and that would be one more thing she wouldn't have to buy. So unless you two already made a deal, let me know if you want my pink dress and it's yours! 0_o just realized tho, I MAY not have it...but if I do, it's yours, free, no payback required. PM me if you want it, and if I have it, then cool deal. If not, then you have another option so yay
As for being rude for asking for a trade back...I will say in his defense that the pm said something like this (this is from my bad memory): "Hey Me.a can I have my Herbie couch and fire wall back for the cowboy hat? I think it may have been a bad deal. Pretty please?" So it was not mean or demanding at all, and the pretty please was there at least. I'm not mad at him for asking for it back. I'm just in a quandary b/c if the hat is coming back, I don't want to trade back, but if it's not, I definitely want to! Of course, once the hat comes back (if it does) it will be a moot point b/c he will for sure want to trade me back then, and I won't want to. And if it does not, then I will def want to trade back but he may NOT want to then. Get it? Arg I just wish I knew!
Also, I think I may have sent him a pm saying I would trade back before I really thought about it. If I did say "ok, I'll trade back", do you all think it's bad for me to say "nvm, I changed my mind?" Does that put me in the same place he is for asking for the tradeback? Or am I allowed to say yes and then change my mind b/c of advice I received? I mean, I know I'm "allowed" to do what I want, I'm just speaking of ethics here. You all know I like to be fair and honest in vmk, with everyone. I just DON'T KNOW! Arg this is a tough decision.
And on another note: I made a trade last night. It's too late (b/c I would NOT ask her to trade back), but
I would like opinions on whether or not it was a good trade for me. She wanted my red crate (my only, which I just recently traded for after long discussion over DIS pm's about it. Note: I wasn't trying to get the crate, the person who traded it to me was trying to get what I traded, and the crate was part of their offer). Anyway, last night: we negotiated a lot, and this girl is the one that I think tried to cheat me before and went back on at least 2 trades we decided on. anyway, what she gave me for only the red crate (beta) was: 2 pirate couches, 2 full stools, one fire window, Jolly Roger pin, and Toucan Pin. I had all those things already, but only one of each pin. Doesn't matter though, b/c I love pirate quest stuff and like to have as much as I can for my many pirate theme rooms.
Do ya'll think that was fair trade for me? She thought it was too much, and she did wear me down (I wanted another fire window and the pirate rug too). For me, I think that's a good haul for just a red box, but it IS beta. I have not seen that many red crates in the game but SHE said 'they are not that rare, they are "common beta" (her words) and my friend has 24 of them'. I dont' think they are that "common" and I'm sure she was saying that to make me think it wasn't worth as much (if her friend had 24, wouldn't she try to get one from them? If I had 24 of anything, no matter HOW rare, I would not be picky about what I got for it. Even if it was inferno or stitch hat...heck if I had 24 I would GIVE some away to ppl on here that wanted them!) Of couse I know better about the value of the crate...I THINK...but anyway...did I make a good trade? I'm happy, but could I/should I have gotten more for the crate? Could I be wrong about its value?
Thanks for reading everyone, sorry so long. I value all your advice and appreciate every bit of it!!!!
~M~