We don't normally do this, but I think this is a unique situation and that all of you who have offered sympathy and comfort here deserve to know, so I'm going to tell you.
The OP of this thread appears to be a fraud, and has posted here under several different aliases. There does not appear to be an accident involving anyone's dad. The OP has actually appeared under some other aliases on this very thread, offering condolences to herself. Over the past few months, she's registered a number of different names and spun a lot of other tall tales. But this one went way too far.
It makes me sad to think that some people crave attention so much that they might come here to take advantage of the emotions of other posters. I'm sorry that those of you who have offered support have been used this way by this person.
To take it so far as to actually make up a death in a bid for attention and sympathy is lower than low.
The OP and all of her aliases are banned.