Please pass the Prozac...............

[2xcited2sleep]

Thanks!
I have to confess.........I'm thinking of switching resorts......again!!

Well, share! What are you thinking about? Not that you can go wrong with any Disney resort.

 

[englishrose47]

Hi Winkers !!Happy BF!!!

 

[winkers]

Well, share! What are you thinking about? Not that you can go wrong with any Disney resort.

I'm thinking about changing to PoP.......it would save me another $1,000..........but I'm not sure. I haven't told D.Jay about it yet. I have to decide first what I want to do before asking his opinion. That way I can steer him in the way I want him to answer!

Hi Winkers !!Happy BF!!!

Hi Rosie!

 

[nts4wdw]

I'm thinking about changing to PoP.......it would save me another $1,000..........but I'm not sure. I haven't told D.Jay about it yet. I have to decide first what I want to do before asking his opinion. That way I can steer him in the way I want him to answer!

Ah, feminine wiles at work!

 

[winkers]

Ah, feminine wiles at work!

 

[Sarilas]

Thanks!
I have to confess.........I'm thinking of switching resorts......again!!

On my mind, every day, like clockwork.

One minute I want to upgrade for a split stay (for the shear joy of being able to still squeeze into one room!) and the next minute I want to downgrade to save money for spending cash.

The words "hot mess" come to mind.

 

[winkers]

On my mind, every day, like clockwork.

One minute I want to upgrade for a split stay (for the shear joy of being able to still squeeze into one room!) and the next minute I want to downgrade to save money for spending cash.

The words "hot mess" come to mind.

I told D.Jay last night and he said we're staying........made my decision easier because he rarely voices a stong opinion. So we're staying where we are.........for now.

 

[Charleston Princess]

On my mind, every day, like clockwork.

One minute I want to upgrade for a split stay (for the shear joy of being able to still squeeze into one room!) and the next minute I want to downgrade to save money for spending cash.

The words "hot mess" come to mind.

Hot mess is definitely the way to describe me and resorts. Just the other day I was wondering how much money I would save if we stayed at a moderate. Then, I shook myself and went back to what I was doing.

I told D.Jay last night and he said we're staying........made my decision easier because he rarely voices a stong opinion. So we're staying where we are.........for now.

It's nice when they have opinions, isn't it?

 

[reelmom]

Hot mess is definitely the way to describe me and resorts. Just the other day I was wondering how much money I would save if we stayed at a moderate. Then, I shook myself and went back to what I was doing.



It's nice when they have opinions, isn't it?

Only when they agree with us!

 

[winkers]

Only when they agree with us!

That's exactly what I was thinking!

 

[rentayenta]

Thanks!
I have to confess.........I'm thinking of switching resorts......again!!

Shocking.
























Not!

 

[winkers]

Shocking.


Not!

You know me too well!

 

[winkers]

I need help!!! How would you handle this situation??

My cousin is getting married in 2 weeks. In our religion when a couple is married in the Temple, only the closest family and friends are invited. There is a reception later for anyone else who the family wants to invite. Well, my MIL is inviting herself to the wedding.
She keeps asking me what time the wedding is and I keep saying I'm not sure of the exact time.
I've tried to hint at the fact that she wasn't invited to the wedding but she just doesn't "get" it.
Do I just flat out say "you weren't invited" or do I just stay out of it and let her embarass herself?

No one will say anything if she shows up un-invited, but it drives me crazy. She thinks that my extended family are her family. They're cordial to her, but she annoys the heck out of most of them.

 

[DisneyJo]

Wow tricky one Cherie, can your DH say something to her as she's his Mom? Other than spelling it out to her I'm not sure what you can do

I'm no help am I

 

[mickeysmyboy]

I agree with DisneyJo. The best way to handle it is probably to have your DH spell it out for her. It maybe better from him!

 

[Charleston Princess]

Another vote for DH telling MIL -- is she invited to the reception or is she planning on crashing both the ceremony and the reception?

 

[winkers]

She is invited to the reception.

She has always behaved as though my family is her family. She invites herself to alot of things and my family is too polite to say anything to her.

I talked to my aunt about this one,and she said if she couldn't take the hint not to worry about it, because she doesn't want to hurt her feelings.

I guess mil assumes that since it's my cousins wedding she should be there too?

Having D.jay say something is a good idea, but he isn't very gentle when he "explains" things to her.

When my grandpa dies about 6 years ago she invited herself into the family meeting before going into the funeral. We meet as a family for a final viewing and have a family prayer before going in as a family, and my mil came in and plopped herself down. D.jay informed her she needed to go wait in the chapel with the other non family members and she got really ticked and threw a fit.

 

[mickeysmyboy]

D.jay informed her she needed to go wait in the chapel with the other non family members and she got really ticked and threw a fit.

Oh my!!! I'm truely understanding the need for prozac now!!! Your a better women then me!! I would have gone completely off the wall at her!!!

If she's invited to the reception and your aunt is ok with it maybe you should just let it go. She may have herself another fit if you don't and cause you a bigger problem!!!

 

[GeminiAngel]

All you can do is avoid the subject as much as you can.
If she brings it up any questions about it again. I'd say "dosen't it tell you that on your invitation?" Then if MIL says I didn't get one, then say "You better call "insert cousin's name" for the details" This way the pressure is off you, and your cousin can uninvite or invite her to the wedding.

Or you can just tell her straight out but nicely that you feel uncomfortable taking her without an invite because this is not your affair, so its not your place to invite her.

 

[MRYPPNS]

Tough one....but speaking for myself (I got married in 2006) I would be PO'd as a Bride if someone came to my ceremony that I didn't invite. I'm sure your cousins took great pains to figure out who was on what invite list....it's not easy. And then there's the problem later when maybe someone else who wasn't invited to the ceremony (but would have like to have been) gets wind that she was there and now wonders why she was allowed to be there when they weren't.
Can you tell that I had something similiar happen at my wedding? But I'm not still bitter 2 1/2 years later, no really I'm not !