AGREE with the OP...
The lists where we live are extensive.
Asking parents to subsidize those who won't/can't is not fair. Sorry.
My daughters Elementary school asks for quite a bit ...a HUGE list.
What we purchase is what we believe she will reasonably use.
two boxes of pencils, a box of markers, a binder,
a stack of loose leaf paper...What gets me is these THEN goes to school and dissapear
We never ever see any of the supplies for her schoolwork/homework being used.
In addition, they ask EVERY parent to supply KLEENEX...HAND GEL, TOWELS...MONTHLY
Im surprised they dont ask for toilet paper too..
(I'm sure that will be next year
MY SON's school is even worse.
I was floored at the list that was sent home when he started middle school.
TWO 8 1/2 pages...FILLED with supply requests. I can tell you the homework that was sent home did not reflect a fraction of the supplies that were requested.
In sum - If I felt he would use it I purchased it. If I knew he would not use the item - and I was subsidizing a lacking school budget...I did not. I contribute in many many ways - more than most parents.... but I refuse to subsidize the schools supplies budget when so many parents are taking advantage of the system. I'm tired of the takers -
Furthermore, I'm QUITE sure the teachers are.tired of the takers as well.
What happened to RULES...and just making everyone do their FAIR SHARE. WHY can't the schools just require each student bring enough supplies for themselves...and expect EVERY parent to do just that...instead of asking for a ridiculous amount knowing that 50% of the parents wont contribute.
The schools are so afraid of getting sued...they can't have any rules...and then the parents pick up the slack when they can.
That's not right...not fair to the parents...that are struggling as well to make ends meet. Ok done VENTING