I really look at the planning as what makes a WDW trip so relaxing--you can figure it out all in advance and then you're just kind of along for the ride. Our last big trip (we did Universal and
MVMCP last year) we were there for 7 park days, did pretty much everything and never waited longer than 30 minutes for anything (and frankly only waited more than 15 minutes four or five times). We did EMHs each day and did one park at open, another one to close and took a nap at the hotel in between. We arrived at rope drop each day, but never before because we weren't going where everyone else was any way--we had FPs for those rides. I didn't spend a lot of time refreshing to get FPs--
most rides don't require FPs if you arrive at the right time and those that do we got in advance. Most days we used four or five FPs, often we only used the three we pre-booked because we didn't need others.
A really good touring plan that keeps you zagging when others zig is really powerful and (at least for me) always knowing where you're going next (even if it is because you agonized about it for months) is really relaxing.
I was a little concerned about my husband following along with such a detailed plan (most days our touring plans would have 25-35 items) but he quickly saw how well it was all working. He was always exclaiming in wonder at how long the wait times were and how they compared to ours. I remember the particularly grim looks we got as we sailed past the Columbia Harbor House line (which stretched well back into Fantasyland) to pick up our mobile order as my husband exclaimed in genuine wonder "you're kidding! We have a fastpass for lunch!?" The night after our first full day in the parks as we got back to the hotel he asked what time we had to leave in the morning and I kind of thought the gig was up so I sort of hemmed and hawed and asked what time he wanted to leave in the morning. He said he wanted to know what time we were
supposed to get up. I said we're on vacation we can get up whenever we want. Finally he just looked frustrated and said "I want to get up when the little plan says we're supposed to get up because I would like to have another day like today. I'm not interested in having the day all those other people were having." I never even thought about apologizing for the plan from there on out...