Congrats, Kristen! I'm happy to stumble upon your PJ. I am planning a wedding at WP/WH for September 13, 2010 (5pm ceremony). We are also expecting ~40 guests, just like you. And, we really, really want to do one large table, but I am starting to worry about the expense. Our planning session isn't until June 3, so I won't have any estimates for a while. It makes it very difficult to plan! Another coincidence = our colors are also going to be blue and pink (turquoise, pale aqua, and fuscia pink). I can't wait to hear more about your plans.