Well then I think it's a good thing I signed up for this board and asked

Cuz now I feel a little silly. Thanks for the feed back. I really appreciate it.
1. Please do not feel silly! My eyes are constantly bigger than my stomach when I plan a Disney trip and I have planned many trips over the years. We're working on our 3rd trip since last August and it's STILL hard to narrow it down and accept that we just can't just eat all day. Okay, maybe we could but we sure wouldn't be enjoying our park time after that!
2. Having a car will help with travel time, but you do still have to factor trekking out of the park, driving over, trekking in, and then doing the reverse. I always allow more time than I think we'll need. If I have to wait when I get somewhere it just gives me a few minutes to slow down (or visit a restroom/ change a diaper/ check out something neat at a resort). I would allow for a minimum of 30 minutes of travel time from park to resort if you're driving.
3. Your plans are a lot of food, and TS meals in general take a longer time than QS (character meals tend to take longer than non-character meals as well).
Here's what I would consider keeping/ changing
I know what Pumba had said about up to 90 minutes, is what I've been seeing consistently. Which freaks me out. So here is the tentative itinerary.
Sunday. Arrival day ( we're driving in) my thoughts is really hang out at the resort. Dinner we are thinking Artist Point in Wilderness Lodge. Then probably wander around MK
Monday. AK. Tusker house, Rainforest Cafe (which I'm probably going to swap with something else,) and then chef mickey
Tuesday. Epcot. Cape May, Garden Grill, Akershus
Wednesday. MK. Ohana, liberty tree tavern, crystal palace.
Thursday. HS. 1900 Park Fare, fantasmic.dining package
Friday MK Bog, and CRT
Saturday. Trattoria Al Forno
*Eeyore and Stitch are a must. Eeyore is my boo
Sunday- I would probably just settle in at the resort but if you really want to do Storybook at Artist Point this does look like the best night to do it.
Monday- Keep either Tusker House or Chef Mickey and ditch Rainforest Cafe. There are great QS places at AK. If it were me I would probably keep Tusker House.
Tuesday- I would keep Akershus. I love Cape May breakfast and I love Garden Grill, BUT if you're already doing Tusker House then the princesses at Akershus are different characters so it changes things up a little. If you really want to keep 2 of those, I'd keep Cape May and Akershus (but that's just because I like breakfast at GG more than lunch and keeping breakfast and dinner gives your digestion a break).
Wednesday- if Stitch is your must-do then keep Ohana for breakfast. Skip LTT for sure (it's good, but save it for another time when you aren't already having a big breakfast). Either skip Crystal Palace or move it to another day since Eeyore is also a must- see for you.
Thursday- if you're going to HS, skip 1900 Park Fare. That will save you A LOT of time driving over, then driving over to HS. I don't typically bother with the Fantasmic dining packages (I don't feel like you're really getting anything for the extra $$ as the seating isn't much better and you still have to line up early). OR, you can have your Cape May breakfast here- Beach Club is very close to HS.
Friday- You could have Crystal Palace this day instead of on Wednesday. If you have it early enough, you could plan lunch at BOG (it's a QS for lunch and breakfast and lunch is the better deal, and also more a la carte items so you could have a lighter lunch if you wanted to). Keep CRT. This is a lot of dining in one day, so plan on not doing too much else at the park, or cutting one thing out.
This can still be a lot of food in one day, so you may want to cut down more but this gets you to everything but 1900 PF, Rainforest Cafe, Garden Grill, and Liberty Tree Tavern.