OMG~I know about the girl issues too! My DD is 9 going on 18!! She got a bra over the summer and started with the deoderant last year. Somedays she want's makeup, sometimes she doesn't. Everything is drama! Boys, friends, clothes, hair...all of it!!
I also know what you mean about the mood swings of the 13yr old boy! One minute he is happy-go-goofy, the next he's madder than hell and gonna take it out on his sister! (usually she has it coming....she instigates...ALOT!)
He's been having girl issues....he likes them, but they only want to be friends/buddies. He told me he sick of being the "buddy"..lol...just wait son...just wait.
oh...kathiniowa~he's doing much better. (If you're referring to my 13yr old grounded for life thread...) He is still working for TLSnell at the horse barn and he enjoys it. He hasn't done anything else to incur more punishment, so at the end of the year, he'll have paid me back in full. Although I did tell him that if he got another zero on any schoolwork...just from not doing it, then I would be keeping the iPOD indefinately. He's so close....but yet so far!!
Oh, and how do you get the boy to wear deorderant EVERY DAY!!! He says that since it's cold out, he's not sweating and doesn't need it. God help me!