No worries, Brad - no beatings!
I'll just tell you my experience.
I've always been told that resort guests are welcome and encouraged to visit other resorts, and we've always told the guard at whatever resort we're visiting exactly why we're there and for how long.
At most resorts it's just dinner, and therefore the 3 hour pass usually comes into play. But yes, going over to ESPN for a game does usually entail a longer stay. However we have always told them that and shown them our FW parking pass and KTTW card - so they definitely know we aren't resort guests.
They always put us in the little lot way out by the road (just behind the guard shack), and it was my understanding that this was actually a visitor lot - although I could be wrong about that.
FWIW, BW is the one resort we've visited that has never issued us a parking pass with a time limit - we always get them at the Poly and Contemp (and of course abide by them).
We've never intended to take up spots meant for the guests staying at another resort, and if I'd ever been told "sorry, you can't park here that long unless you're actually staying here" we'd have made other arrangements to get there without our car.
If Disney does not want non-resort guests parking at BW for more than a set amount of time, then they should be clearly stating this and/or issuing parking passes like the other resorts, or just plain turning folks away. And if/when they do that, we will absolutely abide by the rules.
We're the last folks out there looking to "game" the system in any way or inconvenience other guests.
