Well here we are at the end of my first official trip report, which is an accomplishment in itself, considering all that goes on in this house every day! It feels good to have accomplished it, but also sad, because it is the final chapter.
As you all know, we did not plan this trip too far in advance so we did it with a lot less budget and forethought than I usually have. If my cousin did not call me and ask us to meet them, we certainly would not have gone, so I have to thank her for giving us this opportunity to once again feel the power of the magic of the mouse. When Teresa called from England, I was so excited that she was going to be so close that I knew we had to find some way to get to Florida even if it was just me and Brigid flying down to Clearwater to see them. Teresa is my moms first cousin so my second cousin. She was very close to my mom even though she lived in England. Teresa has been to America to visit us many times and my mom and I went to England to see her once, and then saw her again in Ireland on another trip. When you first meet her, you love her. The other remarkable thing about her is that she looks exactly like my moms sister when she was alive. My aunt Kay was my godmother and died when I was in High school. She was the cool aunt, who lived in Santa Monica, Ca. right off Palisades Park. She was never married, and lived an extravagant life. She was the first person to introduce us to the magic of Disney at
Disneyland. Whenever we went to see her,
She always made sure we went to see the mouse. When I first met Teresa I was surprised about how much she looked like Aunt Kay. We instantly had a bond.
Teresa has stayed with me several times when she comes to Chicago, and we have always had a connection. She is a lovely English lady who you would do anything for. The last time she was here was for my wedding in Sept. 2005. She came about a week earlier to stay with my mom and help her with all the mother of the bride responsibilities. My moms health was already failing terribly at that time, and I knew she would not be around for much longer. I was so happy that she made it to my wedding. My mom was a smoker, who had end stage emphysema, and got weaker and weaker especially towards the time of the wedding. Having Teresa here, was like having her sister here, and gave her the spunk to make it through all the craziness. My parents stayed at my house, to take care of Noah, while Jeff and I were on our honeymoon in Ireland, for 2 weeks, and Teresa stayed on and helped my mom. They had their hands full with Noah. I will always be grateful for all she has done for our family. It meant so much for her to come all the way from England for my wedding and participate in all of the festivities.
My mom rallied for awhile and lived to see Brigid born in Sept. 2006, and then she started to give up. I think she felt she had seen me get married, get pregnant even with terrible odds, and have a beautiful baby girl. She actually drove herself to the hospital to see me on the day Brigid was born and I think that was the last time she drove anywhere by herself.
Sadly, my mom died on February 10, 2007. Teresa was devastated and felt like she had lost a sister. We couldnt talk on the phone without crying.
Why this long story? To explain why this trip was so important to me and why we went even though we did not have the extra cash laying around for it. I really miss my mom, and Teresa is a link to her in some way. So when she called, Jeff knew we had to go, no matter what the cost. I LOVE MY HUSBAND! As you all know from reading the trip report, we are both saps, especially for family.
Another reason to be thankful that we got to go to Disney was that we were able to take our children there. I figured we would take Brigid someday when she was 3 or 4 when she might remember that she was there. I knew she would love it even at this age, as she has such a happy, bubbly personality and loves to be around people. Noah loves Disney, and anytime we can all spend time together as a family is good for him. As you have read, Noah has a lot of issues, and is a difficult kid to parent. I love him with all of my heart, and would not trade one second of my life with him. I know I complained a lot about his behavior, but to his credit, this was the BEST trip behavior he has ever had. It seems like we are making progress with him, little by little. For the last two Christmass he was hospitalized and it near killed me to leave him there on Christmas day. Especially last Christmas, which was Brigids first Christmas, and what turned out to be my moms last.
Noah is such a sweet boy with a big heart and he is very loving. He really is a charmer and when he is good, he is very good. Sometimes it is hard to remember he has so many issues. I am so grateful that we had to opportunity to take him there and spend so much quality time together. Family is the most important thing in all of our lives and sometimes it takes a magical place like Disney to remind us of that.
From the time we entered the property, checked into our hotel, and then entered the MK on the first day, we felt the magic. It took Jeff, about 5 mins on Main Street, to say we were coming back next year and going to stay at the Poly no matter what it took. He also said that he loves Disney and feels so good when he is there, and just like a kid again. HURRAY!!!! I feel the same way! I think it will become a yearly adventure for us, no matter what it takes.
Of course, Jeff has decided we are going to retire at Disney, and he is going to sweep the streets during the parades and talk to all the people, and I am going to sell the light up stuff at the night parades. Our grandchildren will talk about their crazy grandparents who work at WDW, and who can get them in for free anytime they want to come!!! At least we will be the fun grandparents. LOL!!
It was pure joy that we were able to go on this trip. It was pure joy that I got to experience my daughters first trip to Disney and see her little eyes light up at the site of the castle for the first time. It was even pure joy to spend uninterrupted time with my son, even with the moments of insanity thrown in. It was pure joy to watch my husband turn back into the boy I did not get to meet until he was a man, and see the look of magic in his eyes when we walked thru the gates at MK with our daughter that we wished for on our last trip. It was pure joy to get to see Wishes again, with Brigid in my arms, and Teresa by my side, knowing that I had WISHED for her the last time I was there. I know my mom was watching down upon us and proud that we were making family the most important priority in our lives.
Our next trip is for December 6-13, 2008 at the Polynesian resort. Jeff stayed there as a kid, and wants to be able to share the experience with his kids, and carry on the tradition. We now have over a year to plan, so we should the most over planned family by that time! LOL! I will be relying on all of you to keep me as sane as possible during this long planning time! It will be an expensive trip, but you can not put a price on family time, and Disney Magic. It seems that Disney has a way of bringing us together closer as a family each time we go, and it is our way of carrying on traditions with our children. As the commercial goes
Airfare for 4 to Orlando $1000.00
Stay at the Polynesian resort for 4, with MYW park hopping passes, and dining plan for 7 nights, 8 days
$4000.00
Spending money and misc expenses for the trip $2500.00
Time spent with your children creating traditions PRICELESS!
Thank you all for reading and sharing our trip with me. I hope you all enjoyed it and now it is time to start my pre-trip report for the next one!!!!
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!
EILEEN