HeatherC
Alas...these people I live with ...
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I hate drama...especially with family. I would simply call him up and talk to him about it. There may be a perfectly good explanation or he may not have even realized you would be upset.
By not saying anything, things tend to linger and take on a life of their own. We start dreaming up different scenarios in our heads which may or may not be anywhere close to the truth.
With my brothers or sister, I would simply say "dude whats the scoop here". I would keep it lighthearted but ask the questions I need to.
Most times, just hearing the other side of the story clears things up much quicker than keeping it to yourself. Even if you don't agree with his version, at least he will know how you feel and you willl feel better having it out in the open which makes it so much easier to move on.
Sounds like you have a good relationship, so talking about it will probably work out finein this case.
Good luck and have a great trip!!
By not saying anything, things tend to linger and take on a life of their own. We start dreaming up different scenarios in our heads which may or may not be anywhere close to the truth.
With my brothers or sister, I would simply say "dude whats the scoop here". I would keep it lighthearted but ask the questions I need to.
Most times, just hearing the other side of the story clears things up much quicker than keeping it to yourself. Even if you don't agree with his version, at least he will know how you feel and you willl feel better having it out in the open which makes it so much easier to move on.
Sounds like you have a good relationship, so talking about it will probably work out finein this case.
Good luck and have a great trip!!
