OT - DS Having Yet More Problems At School...UPDATE 5/29: New Issue...

[sunnyday123]

So, we've overcome that hurdle only to run into another one. And I know that if anyone can give great advice, it's my fellow DISers. DS has been bringing home red incident reports at an alarming rate. One last week for drawing indecent pictures , one Monday for taking his clothes off in the bathroom , and one yesterday for hiding in the bathroom and being silly during lunch/recess time . He now has alternative recess for the rest of this week and must eat his lunch in the office for the remainder of the school year, which means missing out on the class picnic tomorrow and part of field day next week.

DS told me, DH, and the teachers at school that another boy actually started these incidents and that DJ (name has been changed to protect the not-so-innocent) has been asking DS to do the same thing. DS does say "no" the first time DJ asks, but when DJ then tells DS to repeat the offensive action, DS does so. Other kids see this and then both kids get in trouble when the others report to the teachers. This has been confirmed by the lead teacher, who has talked to both DS and DJ and found that their stories coincided...

I don't know if anyone else touched on this, because I honestly stopped reading after I saw that the other little boy had him taking his clothes off in the bathroom, and the indecent pictures he was drawing. Someone needs to evaluate the other little boy ASAP, and make sure he and your son are seperated. It just sounds a little unusual that he would be doing that, he's had to have seen that somewhere and it just reeks of unacceptable behavior to me. I would have a heart to heart with your little boy, sometimes they will do anything to feel like they fit in, especially if he thinks he's different. I honestly don't know if I would punish him, maybe just have a really big talk about consequences and choices and such. I am way concerned about the other little boy also. Something is just not right. Good luck.